Daily field report and my confusion on the comments I get here sometimes

quinnmcd · 2020-06-10T00:15:02+00:00

Don't worry about guys that only read books and watch videos, but never really approach. Keeping trying to see what works for you.

pirobinha · 2020-06-10T01:25:05+00:00

You are definitely in the right way, i read your reports and you improved 10x more than my lazy ass in the last couple of years, slow or fast, doesn't matter, you are killing it and I hope to see you here everyday, this right here is action, a thing that 1% (or less) of this sub practices, big fan pal, keep up the good work :D!

AtheistJeww · 2020-06-10T00:46:29+00:00

Daygame success rate is naturally low, a top-tier PUA can aim at maximum 10%. The users you are referring to probably don't understand game. You're doing very well, you're able to hold conversations fluently which is the core of approaching, I was actually impressed by your fast progress. Keep it going, I've read all your reports and I'm waiting for the next!

kylel95 · 2020-06-10T03:59:17+00:00

Keep going. I just think you should be a bit more direct (open with "Hey, you look amazing. I had to introduce myself. What's your name?") and try to get her number.

Dominus-Prime- · 2020-06-10T05:12:54+00:00

I know my reply was harsh but I’m a harsh kinda guy. I did congratulate you for the consistent approaches. Many guys can’t even do that and they just sit back and quote shit from books written by guys who don’t have women.

And while your efforts of movement are great, the aspect of them saying they had boyfriends should not go unnoticed. More often than not, this is a defense strategy used by women. Which begs the question: why are they using it?

Here, let me ask you this so maybe you can understand better: why do women like being chatted up by the right guy?

Because it feels good. It makes them feel desired and attractive and sexy. It turns them on.

Talking about the weather and school and jobs does not turn anyone on. So why bring it up.

Being honest and telling a girl that she caught your eye (ie. sexually appealing) is perfectly fine to say.

Trov- · 2020-06-10T08:08:30+00:00

I like what you are doing, I just want to know if the phone numbers you are getting when you succeed lead to something (dates or more) or if you are just approaching over and over to get better at it.

ddredden · 2020-06-10T01:31:47+00:00

Do you have a question in there?

_Gifty_ · 2020-06-10T06:19:29+00:00

Dude you are doing great. Just keep doing what you are dping

Mr_enjoylife · 2020-06-10T09:16:46+00:00

"How long it should take", even though i don't like to put it that way since everyone is different, also depends on how often you actually go out (every day compared to once a week is seven times "faster").

Be proud that you taking action because in my experience a lot of people that talk a lot don't take action themselves.

My recommendation is to focus on one or max. two things at a time (for example: today i want to improve my eye contact but i also keep body language in the back of my head). The next time, two new ones, and so forth.

How long have you been going out until now ?

undeniably_confused · 2020-06-10T10:48:10+00:00

It's always good to admit your confusion, never deny your confusion

h1mera · 2020-06-10T12:22:26+00:00

Good thing is that you are doing something and you want to improve. But there are a lot of space for improvement. When you are approaching woman you should blow her mind, she should be attached to your and she should not want to leave you. Now you are just talking about nothing. You are just another boring person who approaching her. Looks like you are not using all your resources to get her number. Can you say that I did everything to get her number? In all situations you should be winner. Dose not matter if she say you fuck off. You should stay winner.

alexandhisworld · 2020-06-10T12:31:23+00:00

It’s bad you’re doing this at all.

mertcan17 · 2020-06-11T14:05:19+00:00

I read all your daily reports and what i see is you get plenty of boyfriend rejections which is quite normal the reason is when you approach a girl on the street you don't have enough time to have her trust and impress her to get the number and then come out for second date. unless you look like super model or something it would be same as dating app in real life, she would be impressed by your looking and then gives her number.

I'm also new to this journey more than 1 month even. what i analyzed is when i approach the girl apprx speaking 3-4 mins outside due to lack of time , %99 they have said i have a boyfriend excuse. however when i do approach at parks, girls have more free time and they dont come with excuses and i close with the number %90 after speaking at least 15-20 mins. Because they are not in rush or there is nothing in their mind.

That's why i prefer to have decent 2-3 approach in parks(getting 2 numbers at least) instead of 10 approaches and getting 1 (barely)

training4wizardry · 2020-06-12T03:09:53+00:00

I read all the comments and it's understandable your confusion. I'd say, anything negative you should ignore. Plenty of opinions from those that do nothing.

Second there are people that MAY be on to something, but they say it in a harsh or overly blunt way. They may be wrong or guessing, OR they may just need to work on how to properly phrase things when they are trying to coach or help another person. Like learning "coaching game" which is a different type of interaction. You should ask questions to them, I sure do.

It does take time, but ultimately you will listen to those that tend to say things that you start to see are true. This is actual work though because it means you need to check past posts somewhat, or keep track slightly, in some way.

Me, I was taught by a person. I was somewhat skeptical, but they gave me an ear piece and told me exactly what to say. I saw the immediate results that I, in this same body, was getting with the spoken words and I was blown away. Hooked. So, I already know what you are trying to do is the right path. I write presently to perfect my communication skills, and to learn more stuff from your experiences. Because, it's serious fun while under covid lockdown.

I feel for you because I see what the comments are. I'd be slightly overwhelmed too. As you see what is right (it takes time and practice) you will actually store it all in your head and start to see many things simulateously, so much that it will eventually be nearly impossible to write it all down.

So I'd say start with the most positive messages first, then role in the harsh or maybe ones. Ask questions. Forget all the non-believers. They are annoying but they need love too. Just not from me. It's a lot of info but just keep reviewing it when possible, and either way things you see are true will stick in your head, slowly but surely.

Great job, Keep going !!

Title	Daily field report and my confusion on the comments I get here sometimes
Author	Hanan019
Upvotes	21
Comments	22
Date	June 9, 2020 11:58 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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