I am going to break down the average guy who comes to places like Seddit, RSD Nation, and various seduction forums just like it. This guy was not socially in touch in his school days, he was not the one that partied with hot girls, and he didn't really belong to any of the higher status cliques that frequently interacted with hot girls. To put it in other words, this guy either had no friends or he had friends that were very low value (poor hygiene, poor social skills, and the kind who did not really interact much with women).

Now the typical advice that seddit and RSD give is to have this guy go around and spam approach a ton of women while "working on himself" but there is an issue with that advice.

At no point was fixing his social life, especially after school when it becomes difficult, addressed.

I do applaud RSD Luke for doing the Social Circle Blueprint but outside of that, this is a topic that is largely ignored.

The "lone wolf alpha" phenomenon is pure cancer because the reality of the situation is, you have to gain respect from other men and society in order for you to get some of the better looking women out there.

Ever notice a common trend among high school athletes and other guys in school that did well with women?

They had a lot of male friends to lean back on, a lot of cool guy friends, and even a lot of cool female friends to rely on. Most of those guys had a social circle which showed that other people respected them and women picked up on that. These guys had a life that women actually wanted to be a part of.

Now take some dorky guy who is a virgin in his 20s, late to the show, and going out doing approaches.

Women notice if he is out alone, he likely doesn't have many friends and due to that, they realize that he doesn't have much status either. Red flags have already gone up.

The other issue is, a guy who is socially disconnected but obsessed with pickup does not pick up on social norms and instead of being bold, comes off as a weirdo to women in public. Now another red flag goes up!

Now imagine if this guy worked on his social life first or was given some sort of a blueprint on fixing that and getting better friends.

This guy would meet and learn from higher quality men.

He would naturally meet attractive women because he runs in social circles that attractive women want to be a part of.

He would have options on top of meeting women due to the virtue of his social life, going out with friends and online dating will still be available to him.

Best of all, he would finally make that transformation and be a sexy guy instead of some weirdo doing a lot of cold approaches in public but going nowhere.