In high school I have always been that "nice" guy. I had a bunch of friends, i was relatively social, and made out with a couple girls but that was about it. Girls looooved talking about their problems with me, and I'd help em deal with their usual high school drama by giving them the ol' advice from my perspective... I basically ended up digging myself into a shitty situation of being "a brother-like" friend to most of the girls i thought were sexy and attractive.

I was always jealous of those "douche bags" that hooked up with HB9s and HB10s, and questioned myself, why the fuck am i not getting any action? Sadly I blamed my ethnicity, my looks, my body style and even my taste in women for a very very VERY long time. My self esteem lead me into a major depression which also lead me to excessive amount of ganja smoking and getting fucked up on MDMA and coke all the time. As the time went by and we went off to uni, all my friends progressively lost their virginity and sooner or later i became the last one. I was very insecure about being a virgin so I didn't tell anyone when i came to university. Not even to one of my soon-to-be cherished friend that I got really close with in University. I asked her series of quesitons, "why am i not getting laid?""is it about me (asian) going for white girls?(not mention im white washed as fuck)" etc, etc. She responded by looking at me dead in the eye and said " when presenting yourself to a girl, be honest, show no fear and be confident. Confidence is what gets us horny!" Those words stuck to my head for a whole semester... and eventually i found out about presenting yourself as an alpha-male and applying the Decarlo escalation ladder to hitting on girls. One day, I finally told my friend that I was virgin. To me, this was a huge deal, but i felt so freaking good about telling her the truth. That same night , i partied with the girls upstairs and had my eye on this HB7. Here's what I did...

I come into the party with a couple of beers and the first thing i do is lurk around to make eye-contact with some of the girls. I caught the eyes of the HB7(target) and simply made eye contact for about 3 seconds and walked away to the other direction. I ignored her and played some beer pong to waste some time, and right after the game ended, i caught her eyeing me out again(made eye contact for 3 sec again). So i went up to her and simply teased her by saying "Caught you staring at me, and thought you should know... im kinda creeped out (straight face)" her:"(giggle), whatever, i like to creep you out" Me: "Youre just giving me excuses to stare at my firm bum aren't ya?" her: "No im not!(smile)" me: "well i know you're lieing because youre smirking when you say that!"

So i kept on teasing her for the next half our, and kept eye-contact the whole way through. Eventually,the teasing became more sexual and each time i made fun of her, i moved my face a little bit closer to hers, still making eye contact. Eventually our faces were so close, our noses were touching, but i kept on teasing her. While she smiled and laughed, i whispered in her ear "you're waaay too cute right now." I made eye contact again and went for the kiss. We kissed for about a second and i pulled away. (It was infront of alot of people...is that a good thing or a bad thing?) After we kissed, she convinced me to come with the bars with her and the rest of the party. Once we stepped outside (we were the last ones to leave), she claimed she forgot her clutch in her room so we walked back. Once we reached her room and she started searching for her bag, i lightly pushed her so she'd tumble on the bed and went for the kiss again. While we kissed, I made sure to put my thigh right on her crotch. This made her rip off my button up shirt...

After that is history, boys. Any advice? How can i improve?

Ps.I thought it was pritty funny the fact that the day i confessed i was a virgin to my good friend, I lost my virginity.