You cold approach a girl and start seducing her and she feels attracted to you (touches her hair all the time, laughs a lot, sparkling eyes etc). During the conversation she mentions boyfriend/husband. What do you do next?

inthepouringrain2 · 2019-11-09T19:48:03+00:00

When I’ve been cold approached I bring up my boyfriend as soon as possible so that the guy will naturally wrap up the conversation and I won’t feel like I’m being rude. If I were you I’d take it as an automatic sign that she’s not interested and move on.

grrinchas · 2019-11-09T22:19:54+00:00

Women are not stupid they do understand that you are seducing and if she really would want you go away she would communicate through body language. If she shows lots of IOI, in this case you game her as her boyfriend doesn’t exist.

inthepouringrain2 · 2019-11-10T00:07:38+00:00

Touching your hair and laughing are not always signs of interest. They can just as often be signs of discomfort. Honestly don’t know how anyone is getting women’s numbers this way. Any time it’s happened to me it’s been creepy af.

scarrax · 2019-11-09T22:37:52+00:00

If she mentions a boyfriend she either:

A) Has one B) Is trying to get you to go away

In the vast majority of cases if she’s into you she won’t mention a boyfriend

inthepouringrain2 · 2019-11-10T02:09:21+00:00

I have read the pua books out of curiosity. A few years ago I was working at a mall and would continually be approached on my breaks and it was irritating and creepy. Didn’t understand where it was coming from until I read about it. Just wondered if it was still a thing so I came upon this sub. I offer my opinions as a woman because a lot of the convos that go on here are mega misguided

inthepouringrain2 · 2019-11-10T02:20:01+00:00

It also says her “eyes were sparkling” lol what does that even mean

PM_Happy_Puppy_Pics · 2019-11-11T18:08:56+00:00

Any time I get something like that, I wrap up the conversation and leave. There are plenty of other women out there, and all this woman was good for this time was playful banter and flirting. I had fun, she had fun, now time to move on.

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