Everyone thinks being nice to girls is good advice [reddit]

ohstrangeone · 2010-03-04T23:28:15+00:00

But then there's also this little gem of knowledge from the top comment:

wow. my dad's advice when i was 18 was "a good looking guy like you should hang out at Hotel bars on weeknights. all the out-of-state business women come into town horny as hell."

that one is worth thousands if you use it

rmbarnes · 2010-03-04T21:48:36+00:00

Yes, it's good advice. Please follow it. It will make my job easier.

frigginAman · 2010-03-05T04:18:56+00:00

Actually being nice is a good strategy with women (as with everyone else for that matter). It is supplication that they find a turnoff. You can be alpha while doing nice things for people. The key is to be confident and assertive, yet non-challant while doing so. If you seem to be helping others for your own reasons and not seeking approval, you will appear like a leader who has his shit together enough to be able to lend a hand without thinking about it too much. Even if this does not turn on the girl itself, you will build social capital that will help with the ladies.

Casually · 2010-03-04T23:03:06+00:00

Being nice to girls is fine, it just doesn't build any sexual attraction.

ymrhawk · 2010-03-05T22:27:50+00:00

Dead on. I hear girls complain all the time about their asshole ex's and then I would think it would be an easy road for me if I just be nice. WRONG. You may not be become another asshole ex but you will be friendzoned like there's no tomorrow.

godlessgamergirl · 2010-03-04T23:51:52+00:00

Being genuinely nice is different than being nice to manipulate your way into someone's pants.

MothershipConnection · 2010-03-04T23:19:52+00:00

Some of the advice threads I've seen heavily upvoted on Reddit recently are some of the most asinine things I've ever seen.

Title	Everyone thinks being nice to girls is good advice [reddit]
Author	mynewname
Upvotes	11
Comments	30
Date	March 4, 2010 9:21 PM UTC (16 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/b9cs6/everyone_thinks_being_nice_to_girls_is_good/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/everyone-thinks-being-nice-to-girls-is-good-advice.1309928 https://theredarchive.com/post/1309928

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