Bitch shields? I'm no fucking good at them at all.

ThrowawayPUA · 2010-12-22T21:30:27+00:00

It's not clear that you understand what a bitch shield is.

codewarriornc · 2010-12-22T21:35:25+00:00

This one will cure itself with practice and/or better inner game. Here's a VERY brief timeline of how I evolved in this regard.

unconscious incompetence: didn't recognize tests and responded without thinking
conscious incompetence: recognized that a test was present and then failed it while thinking of what to do
conscious competence: responded to tests by ignoring or testing them back
unconscious competence: Girl starts badmouthing at me and I involuntarily zone out and start looking at all the cool things going on in the city, take off my jacket, and out of the corner of my ear I hear "... and then you take of your jacket trying to look all GQ.." and I pop back in with a high state and say "oh you think I look GQ?". This got a PERFECT response.

So go do it, you'll evolve.

edit: lots of formatting, also, if you'd like more in depth description of stuff to try i could talk about this for hours, find me

thefudgeman · 2010-12-22T21:24:40+00:00

Girls you knew from the past are simply coming up to you in public and telling you you're a dick? That's weird. The only proper response would be to ignore them or at most, ask "Do I know you?"

peterg300 · 2010-12-22T21:28:23+00:00

Deflect.

Her: "You're such a dick."

You: "I have a big dick? Shhh, I thought we agreed to keep it a secret..."

By deflecting you show that you have a strong frame of confidence (don't give a fuck about others opinions) and that you really aren't a dick if you're brushing her childish comment aside while continuing whatever you were talking about before.

Mouthpiece · 2010-12-23T04:34:05+00:00

"You're such a dick."

Agree and amplify: "You were supposed to draw that. Here, let me show you what a dick looks like… " and then draw one.

Since, you know, it's Pictionary.

Barney21 · 2010-12-23T11:22:40+00:00

Your frame is that everyone's having fun. Misinterpret bad vibes as more fun and move on to more promising material ASAP. Anything else is losing your frame.

philosarapter · 2010-12-23T16:52:32+00:00

If a girl calls me a dick, I respond: "That would explain your attraction towards me."

chumpta · 2010-12-22T22:31:37+00:00

"Your mom." This is a simple neutralizer that works extremely effectively.

Also, utilize what Jeffy Allen calls the "shifting sands." Just say, "your mom," or "haha that's cute" and IMMEDIATELY segue into something else. They will literally forget what they were talking about.

And example he used is when some girl gave him some shit, he simply responded, "that's funny. anyways my friend eats lemons whole, isn't that weird? we were out for lunch and she starts eating the lemon garnishing her meal! do you think that's bad for the enamel on her teeth? I guess if she brushes...."

Title	Bitch shields? I'm no fucking good at them at all.
Author	tommyschoolbruh
Upvotes	3
Comments	21
Date	December 22, 2010 9:07 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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