A simple trick to sit next to her

RarneyBubble · 2011-02-20T23:14:14+00:00

Tl;dr - Mumble something incoherent and say 'know what I mean?' When she says 'What?' move close to her and talk clearly.

BPhair · 2011-02-20T18:00:36+00:00

Simple and natural, I like it.

jerseykid · 2011-02-20T19:42:03+00:00

I fucking love you Seddit.

on_the_dl · 2011-02-20T21:38:43+00:00

One of my friends, a real natural, would simply tell a girl sitting opposite to come sit next to him, because it was hard to hear each other. Polite but direct, and it worked great.

MagnumD · 2011-02-20T19:17:07+00:00

what do you do if she pretends like she heard you and responds with a "yeah" when you ask know what I mean?

usagikami · 2011-02-20T21:53:31+00:00

Am I weird that I don't like someone I have just met to touch me? Is it really not normal? I guess I am just too standoffish?

Bubbascrub · 2011-02-20T18:45:03+00:00

A pretty good trick.

Lanko · 2011-02-21T00:08:26+00:00

I've been using "secrets" to accomplish this. If i've got her engaged enough that she wants to know something about me, I'll dodge it or make her guess for a little bit to build up suspense, then tell her, okay, I'll tell you but it's a secret... (lean in close, talk into her ear, speak slowly, use your bedroom voice). If the seating is bad, I'll lean half way in then pull back as though I can't quite get close enough, give a slightly unimpressed look at the obstacle, then point at her, point at the empty seat next to me and most of the time she'll just hop over like it's nothing. (there's a bit of a balance I need to strike in my expressions here. There's a little bit of sexual cave man "you! Here! Now!". As I show her where I want her to be, followed immediately by an aloof "I don't really care If you do or not, whatev's ". ).

Before I reach this point I've probably touched her hands, arms and shoulders from across the table. Not ideal but still key to warming her up enough to make the seat switch.

2011-02-21T07:18:06+00:00

Great article. I'm a little confused on the last part about "backing in," can someone clarify that for me?

Naga14 · 2011-02-21T12:59:44+00:00

Sounds like a great tool if there is genuine reason for mishearing in the venue.

Duraz0rz · 2011-02-21T16:38:35+00:00

I've noticed I've done this in clubs. Try to get really close, touch, and lean in to try and talk. The only hard part is if the music is so deafening loud that you can barely hear, but then it's probably time to move then.

Title	A simple trick to sit next to her
Author	insickness
Upvotes	178
Comments	25
Date	February 20, 2011 3:34 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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