Total AFC here. I'm 25 and I've Only ever been in a handful of relationships and all were pretty crappy and all of them formed organically over time. It's summer and I've decided I need to end this AFC problem of mine. The readings on Seddit are great, but I find them ambiguous - I'm the type of person that needs a step-by-step in order to learn initially and obviously most of the reading material here doesn't help very much to that end.

Years ago when I was in college, someone introduced me to sosuave.com and the message boards there. The main thing that stuck out to me there was the Don Juan Bootcamp threads. Someone took it upon himself to create weekly challenges for AFCs and basically guide them down the path to sarging without relying on canned material. At the time, I was even more of an introvert than I am now and my approach anxiety would have had me floored. A few years in the working world has fixed that, but I still can't approach very effectively.

I just found a PDF of the DJ bootcamp that I saw those many years ago and I intend on starting that up this week.

Week 1's goal is to say hi to 50 people. That's it. Sounds simple but it takes nerve. My goal for tonight: Get 10 strangers to agree to let me take portraits of them while I'm walking through the city (I'm hoping there is no rain after work today because that will ruin today's target).

You can download the PDF and follow along here