Dealing with Belarusian HB8 that doesn't like anything

Tystero · 2012-08-16T03:55:13+00:00

She doesn't like jazz? Next her.

But seriously, either she's really stuck up or very boring. Or maybe she doesn't like you enough. Clearly, you're not awesome enough for her to be worth an evening of banality. Most chicks that are into you would put up stuff they don't like if they think you're cool enough. Or maybe her family was killed by jazz musicians with super-sharp minigolf discs. You never know.

You really wanna hang out with someone who doesn't share your interests? Pretty sure you'll find some equally hot girls who love the same stuff that you're into. Don't waste your time.

And leodoestheopposite is right. She'll most probably ditch your ass for the shortest, fattest, ugliest, Nickelback loving, ethics hating Wall Street guy in a fuckin' heartbeat. Seen it happen.

itsmevichet · 2012-08-16T15:15:04+00:00

Here's something you should do differently:

Stop spending time with her.

Seriously. She likes nothing you like. She's a downer. I don't care how good she looks. Take it from a guy who has half the countries in Eastern Europe knocked off his bang list.

You can find fun chicks who are just as hot and have none of the hang-ups.

I wouldn't say she's full on crazy, but there are some red flags here that you don't need to be dealing with. Read that shit on Table Theory, holmes.

leodoestheopposite · 2012-08-16T03:32:44+00:00

Sorry to be stereotyping here but: HB8 blond + Belarus + Hackensack NJ = she's a golddigger on a mission, her targets are Hedge Funds managers and the like.

tall_geek · 2012-08-16T03:45:07+00:00

Next time she invites you somewhere mock her in a funny voice "I don't like driving too far", I don't like events, I don't like walking, I don't like sun, I don't like wearing pants...

Then tell her "Tomorrow there's this event and guess what! you're going with me. I don't care.". "I expect you all dressed up and wearing a smile." Add a smiley at the end. Chicks from eastern europe like your confidence even more so than north american ones. Guys there are all macho. So give her a mix of confident and a nice guy.

This eastern euro chick I've been texting for a couple of weeks and one date. I ask her if she has plans this weekend, She says she hasn't planned anything yet. She asks what about me. I tell her "I'm meeting up with you this sunday". She replies "your confidence is unbelievable". She loves it.

apalebluedot · 2012-08-16T03:59:53+00:00

You could simply just ask her what she likes. Doesn't sound like you are really that into her, though. This is cliche, but looks aren't everything.

2012-08-16T04:32:21+00:00

It's starting to sound like she really isn't worth your time man. I'd say move on to a girl who's going to want to go out and do these things with you. All else fails, I'd be happy to hit up a man date for free beer and mini golf. That sounds awesome.

OldTiger · 2012-08-16T10:24:26+00:00

I've got an on/off thing with an eastern european HB10, and have done for a long time. She's a spoiled only child with a heap of daddy issues and no idea how to have a sensible relationship because she never saw her mother have one.

It's cool to see you 'on her terms'. The more you see her, the more everything will be on her terms. It's all a shit test, everything will be about her testing to see if you do what you're told. She'll keep messing with you, because you'll keep doing what you're told - cause she's hot. Once you get bored and stop, she'll find other guys to play with.

SHe'll keep doing it because she doesn't know she's doing it. It's normal for her. It's all just a game and she's messed in the head.

If you can stick your dick in her, great. Do it. I'm guessing it'll be some dirty rough mind blowing sex... but don't expect anything sensible to come of this.

redditor29198 · 2012-08-16T15:24:59+00:00

Why the hell are you spending time on someone who is obviously a loser and the only value to you is her looks? Move the fuck on, there's millions of women out there and you're completely wasting your very precious and finite life time on useless.

PUAdept · 2012-08-16T18:00:33+00:00

Go out and see her. Kino, go for the k close. She seems kind of boring, but if she's game could make a fun occasional fwb.

Orcatype · 2012-08-16T06:04:38+00:00

Word

sillymallard · 2012-08-16T16:48:09+00:00

Ask her what she likes to do.

Title	Dealing with Belarusian HB8 that doesn't like anything
Author	spaceghost5
Upvotes	7
Comments	18
Date	August 16, 2012 3:12 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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