Picking up girls at EDM festivals

cudder17 · 2015-04-28T20:43:22+00:00

Your number 1 goal should be to have fun, don't make your priority picking up chicks. Just have an absolute blast and everything else will fall in place.

dik_swellington · 2015-04-28T22:49:45+00:00

have alot of molly.

Doctor_Pedobear · 2015-04-29T01:03:39+00:00

O man, EDC is like the easiest place. First thing first, have fun. If you're not having fun, she can definitely tell and you'll only bring her down. Next, I usually compliment on whatever accessory she has (she'll have dozens) and just dance with her. Don't be afraid to kino and definitely grab her hand. As you keep dancing, I usually dance in front of her instead of turning her around because her main focus is the stage, you turning her around will make her want to turn back to focus on the stage; alternatively when you're in front of her, she focuses on you and the stage is behind you. Do more kino, dancing, and go for the k-close. I would rarely talk too much because 90% chance, they're rolling and they would rather move than talk. It's fairly easy game out there but know this, you will NOT be able to f-close that night or subsequent nights if you're rolling; machinery aint gonna be able to work down there if you're high too. Overall, have fun and game on

WoodyHarrlesonsAgent · 2015-04-29T03:36:10+00:00

Here's a real world life pro tip: I've been to burning man I've been to Waka, bonnaroo and a ton of small fests--

Write this down and inscribe it on your father's credit card:

Get a camping pass and park a RV in it that has a shower and toilet.

That's literally it. You will literally have more pussy than you know what to do with. I'm not trying to be a jerk I'm not trying to be skeezy that's just a tip from someone who's been there

Congleton_Sandback · 2015-04-29T00:56:40+00:00

Most/many times I went to club nights with my mind on girls very little happened. Not all the time but probably 75‰ Those times I went simply to dance and enjoy the music, I had girls picking me up. Go figure. I guess they perceive it as non-threatening. I know it's difficult but focus on fun and the women will come to you when you least expect it.

NADER_THE_GATOR · 2015-04-29T05:43:47+00:00

Oh dude please please please don't be that guy at edm festivals.

People who regular these festivals fucking HATE people who come just to pick up girl, and these are the kind of people who rarely hate anyone.

It's about going there to have fun, to connect with people, to respect each other, it's not a meet market

Sure I have danced with, and kissed alot of girls at raves, but I never go with the "let's pick up chicks" attitude, I never even thought about the strategy. I just do alot of ecstacy and go and have fun, dance around, sing along and such, sometimes I vibe with a girl, sometimes I just by myself. sometimes I tell them they're beautiful or their outfit is nice (not because I'm spitting game, I really mean it), but I never have the pick up mindset that I have at night clubs

firelordozai17 · 2015-04-29T01:53:56+00:00

guys what's rolling?

Bored_White_Kid · 2015-04-28T23:56:47+00:00

Everyone's saying just have fun. And that's true. But when I picked up a girl at a festival it was all about figuring out what girl is available. I met a girl playing with poi toys, started a conversation and 20 minutes later we were behind a tent with the deed. I might just be lucky.

SamuraiDrew · 2015-04-29T00:07:49+00:00

FUN. HAVE FUCKING FUN.

Alwaysinadaze · 2015-04-29T03:23:58+00:00

Always lift with your legs.

AnUnknown · 2015-04-28T23:28:14+00:00

Go have fun. Get out there, rock out like nobody's watching, and focus on having the best time you can there. Almost universally, in my experience anyways, they'll make themselves known to you - you'll barely have to approach.

r3ptarr · 2015-04-29T12:01:31+00:00

ProTip: Don't be the guy that just walks around sliding in behind girls and grinding up on them. I go to alot of EDM shows with my gf and her friends and theres always that guy that basically humps every girl until one doesn't throw him off.

philosarapter · 2015-04-28T20:52:18+00:00

Compliment girls on their outfits, sometimes they put a lot of effort into it. Alternatively you can 'peacock' by wearing a creative costume of your own. Other than that, its easy enough to just be social, talk to the people in your immediate proximity and find where the after party is at!

ChadPUA · 2015-04-29T10:49:45+00:00

If you're at an EDM event and your top priority is NOT going for/enjoying the music/artists, you're going to stick out like a sore thumb. EDM events are NOT like clubs, where girls go to for a night of dancing and possibly to get laid. Girls are at these shows 100% to hear their favorite artists perform, and literally less than 1% of them have getting laid on their minds.

Honestly just enjoy the music, and if you do want to meet people/girls, do so with the mindset of making friends; don't pull pua shit there.

xXxKalamityxXx · 2015-04-28T23:53:43+00:00

Serious note here! if you are doing this you have to be the guy having tons of fun and saying fuck what other people think. But also the majority of girls at these kind of events have ADHD and are all over the place for the most part because the energy is so high so if you want to keep one girl, keep moving her around the venue and go on "adventures". On the other hand if you wanna be with multiple girls just be super ballsy and super direct, Girls go to these events to have fun not be asked about their studies, favorite movies, and TV shows. You get the point!

bboypedia · 2015-04-28T23:17:16+00:00

I'll be there too! like what cudder17 said, just have fun!

PoliticoG305 · 2015-04-29T01:12:22+00:00

I'm gonna have to put the brakes on this one.... If you're going to go to EDC and not roll, you're just there to pick up girls who are too fucked up to make a conscious choice. Just think about that a little.

Gamma_Male_ · 2015-04-29T05:04:15+00:00

Like this? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g4eBS-DD9u8

nevergiveupppp · 2015-06-23T06:39:22+00:00

It's more difficult than one would think. And I'm speaking from experience. I've been to 3 EDCs and I pulled only from one of them.

Here's the thing. Yes, vast majority of girls there are either drinking or rolling which means they will be very friendly and you can gain attraction very quickly.

Here's the issue though. All the girls there are with friends. There are very strong social agreements to keep the group they came with together. Even if you see a girl by herself that just means she's temporarily separated from her friends and is trying very hard to get back together with them. You're just some random dude at festival so her loyalty will be with her group and her friends. The group usually came together and are planning to leave together - they're sharing rides, whatever. They're also very often staying together.

So, basically in order to pull you will need VERY strong attraction AND comfort from the girl. And perhaps even more importantly you will need to have trust and approval from her group of friends - they need to know you're cool and not some psychopath.

So this is what makes it very challenging. That's why makeouts and dancing with girls there is easy but isolating and pulling and logistics are superhard.

As far as #1 goal having fun, sure you can go to have fun but the goals of "just having fun" and "hooking up with a girl" are actually competing with each other. Let's say you're at a stage listening to your favorite DJ. Cool. But there are no pretty girls around. What are you going to do? Stay there and have fun? Or go somewhere else to look for pretty girls? You can't do both at the same time.

So for these reasons I'd say big festivals are not good to pick up girls. Smaller local raves are better because the girls are local and you can at least get her number and hang out later.

Far_Awayy · 2015-04-29T02:32:10+00:00

It can be tricky, since a lot of them are there to have fun first, not just to hook up. For me it's always happened naturally. I just befriend them and watch a set together, then hopefully you guys are on a similar schedule and can go on an adventure together. During that second set can be a good time to make a move, assuming it's now just about dark. You still have to show some interest beforehand, but it's just a slower process.

Shelton69er · 2015-04-29T20:42:57+00:00

Just ask her to dance and wing it from there. If she says yes you know that she's at least slightly into you.

matteo468 · 2015-08-31T03:28:34+00:00

Go dance and let loose and trust me the girl will be coming to you. I now have a routine at festivals that I go to and it goes like this. I roll or I don't (depends on the festival and my mood) then I go dance and have as much fun as I can. While I'm dancing I scan the crowd and I always find at least one girl if not more casting glances my way. They usually slowly dance there way over towards me so that it doesn't seem like there trying to get close to me but I know what there doing. Then they usually end up dancing somewhere in front of me and eye fucking the shit out of me and once the see me notice them they wiggle there ass really close to me and usually all I have to do is put my arms around them and we start grooving together. From there the rest is easy since you know the girl is interested and that makes it easier going for and getting a K-Close and if you can get that you can usually get a F-close later that night. You can also still have sex sometimes if your rolling its just harder to get it up and you have a hard time cumming so it can be some very long fuck sessions. But if you can't get it up it still feels great to just roll around naked with a girl.

bananabreadmuffins · 2015-04-29T10:13:35+00:00

Okay OP here's a PROTIP about festi chicks-

ALL of them are rolling, horny, and sex is all part of the "fun". Believe me they wanna have rollin balls sex while they're having a blast it's icing on the cake. Festi chicks are the easiest out there.

Every festival I've attended I've gotten some from grinding at the mainstage to "let's go to my tent now"

evilkayak · 2015-04-29T03:18:38+00:00

What EDM in nyc?

sysceng · 2015-04-29T03:30:46+00:00

energy drinks and neon colours

drawnred · 2015-04-29T02:35:23+00:00

You mean picking up girls at STD festivals

EDIT: Love that I got downvotes when you really should be VERY careful of girls (or guys) you meet at music festivals, as many people DO look at those as a place where rules don't apply, I've been going to festivals for about 7 years now, I've been to more than my fair share, and the horror stories I've heard/witnessed would have you second guessing the safety of these hookups, and its cool, at your own risk

kennyboi77 · 2015-04-29T04:40:16+00:00

dont do it.

2015-04-29T03:24:45+00:00

This is mostly a logistical challenge tbh. Like how close is your room? is there any other option for a place? etc, etc.

steevrock · 2015-04-29T04:30:41+00:00

Get your Chotchkie's flare up! Seriously wear shades, a loud shirt, hat, bring a prop etc. CHicks love to grab shit and ask "can I wear that" or "omg your sign/shirt is so funny, can I take a pic"

sosueme · 2015-04-29T05:12:04+00:00

http://www.thegmanifesto.com/2007/08/greatest-pick-up-line-of-all-time.html

Golobulus · 2015-04-29T06:51:45+00:00

Offer them drugs.

Title	Picking up girls at EDM festivals
Author	pr3167
Upvotes	58
Comments	76
Date	April 28, 2015 8:37 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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