2 Years of Pickup, but No Results!

grass_cutter · 2016-10-17T15:28:52+00:00

The problem is your model and conception of how to get from A (where you are) to B (sleeping with tons of girls) is probably largely wrong.

For instance, maybe someone convinced you that merely putting in reps (approaching 1000s of girls each year) will get you from A to B. Nope. Approach machine is ... bah.

You actually need to focus on one thing at a time. You need to at least learn something, and change something up, after say 20-30 approaches where you get zero results. What's going wrong? Repeating the same thing = insanity
More importantly, sometimes it's not the approach or 'game' but the product you're hawking. How's your hygiene? Clothes? Swag factor? Career prospects? Emotional health? Neediness? Confidence? Hobbies? What's your life mission? Social skills? How's your body look? Etc Etc

Imagine a fat old disgusting woman trying to approach a variation of George Clooney 10,000 times. She's just wasting her time and making herself feel like crap! Sometimes you need to fix the product, not the marketing. Which is you. The potential is there but you know, ya gotta get there.

answermeanything · 2016-10-17T15:19:40+00:00

i have same problem before. As for 4 years of experiencing "game" there is only one thing that matter here, how you see yourself. First you have to let go all your preconceptions on women and treat them as your equal. By doing this you're attracting the woman whose on your current level. No matter how difficult the situation is, you can get through it.

Overnight_Delivery · 2016-10-17T14:33:56+00:00

street game is the most difficult. you should try places where girls actually go to get picked up. when learning you have to try all different types of venues / girl types until you find what works for you. obviously if you knew what works for you you'd be doing it so whereever / whatever will end up working has to be something you wouldn't have imagined would work.

Woujo · 2016-10-17T15:03:46+00:00

Just focus on making female friends and becoming an authentic, warm, charming person. Don't worry about sex yet.

treesarered · 2016-10-17T16:26:20+00:00

I'm like 1 year in and practically no results, so I know how you feel!

SaisonSycophant · 2016-10-17T16:48:22+00:00

Find hobbies where you can meet girls with similar interests to you. That and even if you can't meet girls with them most hobbies make you more interesting to girls.

2016-10-17T22:54:35+00:00

Take a moment to pause and reflect. What have you learnt in the process? What have you become? What have you overcome?

I think your expectations are messing with you. You are only aiming at sex. Yes that's the goal we all want to improve. But just focusing on that one goal will make us demotivated.

Do you have a wing?

leprogrammist · 2016-10-18T08:44:18+00:00

Wie kann man 2 Jahre jeden Tag etwas machen und immer noch Angst davor haben? Vor was hast du Angst - vor dir selbst? Demotiviert okay.. Die Strasse ist nicht der beste Ort in Wien. Was verbindet man mit Strasse? Verkäufer, Obdachlose, Bettler, Spendensammler, Irre... Es ist kalt es ist nicht bequem. Welcher normale Mensch verbringt mehr Zeit auf der Strasse als nötig?

Czekraft · 2016-10-18T11:56:54+00:00

Being smoother and having a backup plan. Please don't be that guy at a mall who stops people to say "Hi I'm blahblah, what's your name? Wow you have the same name as my sister. Cool." People have places to be, and can do without being followed around like a puppy.

Try to pick a girl up in a starbucks line because they might just sit with you afterwards, or pretend that you work in a retail store so there are more chances to compliment them because it's not that unusual.

2016-10-18T13:40:36+00:00

Maybe you are fat gay?

xenaprincesswarlord · 2016-10-18T14:30:18+00:00

I have a question, how exactly did you approach women OP said?

Did I get it right you were in the street and chatting up girls who walked by?

That's a big NO! It's like trying to talk to someone in the public transport with their headphones. No ones wants to be talked to when they're walking.... they are places to "pickup" women like you said (bars, clubs, anywhere else but this!)

And what did you expect one of them turning around and go: Oh my god who's that suave sexy boy whistling at me while checking out my ass? Looks my future boyfriend let me drop what I'm doing and go with him for a quickie behind the bushes" 😂

That would never happen, and if it does she's probably a hooker or she's slept with half the town too..

Moocowstorm · 2016-10-17T16:03:47+00:00

Therapy

that-freakin-guy · 2016-10-17T16:07:33+00:00

STOP WITH THIS TROLL COMMENTS PLS

Woujo · 2016-10-17T20:39:58+00:00

My goal was to have lots of sex with girls

This is your problem.

Girls don't want to be "gamed." Ever. Ever.

They want to meet a guy they like and have an emotional connection with him. The problem with this PUA mindset of approach approach approach is that guys focus on just racking up numbers rather than creating a genuine emotional connection and making the girl actually like them.

One real, deep conversation with a girl is worth 1,000 approaches. Even if you're not going to fuck her. Your goal should be to go out and just have one REAL conversation with a girl. That's all. She may not fuck you, but that's the first step.

aswjacob · 2016-10-17T21:26:01+00:00

Take a bootcamp with RSD. I highly recommend Ozzie, he is Europe. Also if you were consistently approaching like you said you were then it's your strategies and techniques that were incorrect. In other words you kept making the same mistakes without correcting them.

I have been in the game 10 years and those are the mistakes that are usually made when a guy goes out consistently and doesn't get results.

Also for Daygame I highly recommend Daygame Blueprint. It is hands down the best product on the market for daygame. You can download it off a torrent site as it is no longer on the market for sell.

Title	2 Years of Pickup, but No Results!
Author	cena7577
Upvotes	14
Comments	30
Date	October 17, 2016 2:00 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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