What's the single best piece of advice someone gave you to improve your game?

chewbacaflocka · 2017-05-25T15:15:50+00:00

"No one is going to judge you for approaching. But I will judge you for not approaching." - my friend and mentor, just before my first cold approach. My response was going to be "Well. I don't really give a fuck if you judge me" which I got halfway through saying before the lesson clicked:

He is my friend and I don't truly care if he judged me for something so silly. So why did I care if these four strangers thought badly of me? I got up immediately and approached, stayed in for twenty seconds with a trembling voice and didn't even get rejected, just got a blank response and left the set.

I get back and he asks, "Are you still alive? Did it kill you?"

I replied, "That was awesome."

MrHouse2281 · 2017-05-25T16:15:09+00:00

Make your intentions clear

Waivers · 2017-05-25T13:34:05+00:00

replacing 'approaching' with 'bring them in'

dirgable_dirigible · 2017-05-26T03:15:42+00:00

Always....no it was never......forget to check your references.

MadMontux · 2017-05-26T03:33:39+00:00

"The most important relationship that will ever have...that has the most impact in all other relationships in life...is the relationship you have with yourself."

This sums up my understanding of inner game, something I have struggled with since the beginning.

Ragondux · 2017-05-25T12:01:30+00:00

That quote by Joss Whedon: be yourself, unless you suck.

zodelode · 2017-05-25T12:36:30+00:00

Don't be a dick. Like yourself so others can like you too.

Woujo · 2017-05-25T13:21:51+00:00

When talking to women, think about and talk about something OTHER THAN THE WOMAN.

failatsomething · 2017-05-25T15:09:30+00:00

"You're better than her."

SnapSocialGuru · 2017-05-25T16:37:28+00:00

I went to an in-person event by Todd (from RSD). I've always resonated with him more so than others pick up instructors because of his chill, down-to-earth style.

Anyway, one of the things he said during the event changed my life forever. He said, "The best course of action is always being yourself."

It was a liberating moment.

Makakka2002 · 2017-05-25T19:42:24+00:00

you nothing I man

kel003 · 2017-05-26T08:38:26+00:00

"Being outcome dependant and enjoy the moment."

Title	What's the single best piece of advice someone gave you to improve your game?
Author	OnyxiasLair
Upvotes	13
Comments	18
Date	May 25, 2017 11:56 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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