How do some people naturally know how to game?

Fuzzy-Bottle-4138 · 2024-03-06T21:32:50+00:00

Like any other skill, being a “natural” at something involves an extremely complex interplay of both genetic predisposition (physical and cognitive traits which contribute to natural aptitude in certain areas) and environmental influences (things such as upbringing, exposure to different experiences, access to resources, etc)

Also you don’t actually need the type of game people work on here to get girls. I know tons of people than have had numerous girlfriends, are married to awesome girls but would be scared shitless and have no idea what they’re doing if you asked them to approach and hit on a random hot girl they’ve never met before. It’s not really a requirement to date but it helps for sure.

And most people aren’t naturals at this at all…it’s something that you develop over time even if you aren’t trying to work on it and get better. Just being in relationships, talking to girls, having hookups, makes you better over time.

DaygameCode · 2024-03-06T22:01:54+00:00

Correct upbringing with good role models, they have a natural inclination to be more in touch with their primitive instincts, they didn’t let school system, religion, culture or social norms dictate or shape their sexual behavior around women. They have natural confidence due to good parenting and maybe genetic factors that contributed towards receiving positive validation. And also experiences, getting a lot of experience with women even if it’s bad can help them learn assuming they have good self-reflection skills which not every man has.

TRTGymBro · 2024-03-07T00:08:27+00:00

Naturals just have the right beliefs/inner game, such as: women like me, women wanna fuck me, I'm a quality guy, I know my value.

That's it really. The rest is just conversation and flirting a bit, which is just playful joking around with sexual/romantic undertones. Then you just make your move.

Guys way over think it and over analyze. Once you have your inner game in place, everything else just comes in naturally. It's like when you are learning how to drive. At first, every move has to be calculated and you are afraid of fucking up. You analyze everything and have to remember a thousand things. With time you relax and do it smoothly without thinking.

The difference is when it comes to meeting women, if you never get your inner game in order, you will be stuck calculating and analyzing every little move you make for the rest of your life.

ExtraordinaryBeetles · 2024-03-07T01:24:22+00:00

Mentorship. They grew up around people who had the skills and they were in the situations that enlightened them.

If you watch your dad charm the pants off of every lady in the school office when he picked you up, chances are you're gonna learn something.

Dandys3107 · 2024-03-07T06:07:01+00:00

Some have these natural skills and intuition. Some find themselves in girl's company frequently and just are perceptive enough to figure out women's mind. Contrary to popular belief, you can more or less grasp women's nature as a man, if you can acknowledge they are something different and willing to learn other type of human being.

AnAIAteMyBaby · 2024-03-07T07:24:35+00:00

Think about when you were a little kid and you went up to another kid in a playground and said "do you want to play with me". You didn't have any inhibition, you weren't self conscious you just saw another kid and wanted to play with them.

It's similar with a natural, they see a woman and effectively just ask if they want to play with them. They don't have the same self consciousness or self doubt that most men have.

Factsonreddit · 2024-03-07T04:03:28+00:00

Confidence plus understanding of women.

roakmamba · 2024-03-07T06:45:45+00:00

Naturals bro

H8beingmale · 2024-03-08T01:00:07+00:00

its amazing what a healthy childhood can do

TotalLee_Annoying · 2024-03-11T20:53:35+00:00

There’s no such thing as “game” .. it’s all about mutual attraction. Mutual attraction is the grounds for conversations to go smoothly! Fuck Game!

Minute_Abroad_8105 · 2024-03-06T22:08:27+00:00

Yea its bc of nothing attention if all you do is go look the shit up thats not how you learn on what to do natural comes but never leaves

SWIM270 · 2024-03-06T22:14:22+00:00

Natural’s don’t hide who they are. Everyone is capable of this. You should try!

ericandkaycoaching · 2024-03-06T22:26:43+00:00

It’s their belief system. If they believe it’s normal to talk to women, show interest and ask them on dates then they don’t associate with the emotions that paralyze others

Title	How do some people naturally know how to game?
Author	MadonatorxD
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Date	March 6, 2024 9:21 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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