You had a conversation that lasted 1 minute or less and pretty much asked straight away for the number, then ghost occurs or it simply goes nowhere.

You could keep doing that with 1 million women and never get a date.

This is a seduction sub, the whole point is you have to seduce the girl. Asking her name and what she does for a living, or what she studies, and then saying that you want her number, isn’t seduction.

Seduction is the art of getting women to like you, not the art of figuring out who is already sold on you because the fact is no girl is sold on you until you actually talk with her.

The girl being seduce requires to really trigger intense emotional state in her, to “make” her feel emotions, like anticipation, desire, sexual tension, goosebumps, feeling butterflies, excitement, relatability, connection…

So just because you ask what her name is, and 3 more questions before you take her number, doesn’t mean you made her feel any of those emotions. In fact, the “feeling she gets” is the same that she would get from an internet personality test, nothing.

All you did is exchange some factual information about each other and that’s it. You celebrate thinking: “Omg this random woman gave me her number! So that must totally mean she can’t wait to see me!_” Well not really. She gives it because it’s easier to just give a number and the ghost or block you, than having to say _no i don’t like you, i’m not interested.

Cold approach therefore isn’t seduction, you are just playing tinder in real life when you cold approach a random woman and ask her number in less than 5 mins. That is why they ghost and never lead to any date.

Seduction requires more time talking (10 mins at least, the more the better, but also doing it right!) and not just talking about factual information but also playing, teasing, flirting, messing with her, and triggering emotional state.

Let me repeat this: “You must talk for longer AND ALSO use that longer time to seduce her”. If you only talk longer but you don’t know how to use the longer time to seduce her, then it doesn’t make a difference if you talk 1 min or 10 mins

So if you want to meet a girl through cold approach and actually get a date from it, you need to have a longer conversation where you truly click and get excited about each other, not just mass approach 50 women in a day with completely forgettable conversations.

If you don’t have time to have a a decent conversation that lasts 10-15 mins, don’t even bother with cold approach because you will get rejected or ghosted or flakes by nearly every girl you cold approach.

And no it’s just not talking longer for longer’s sake, it’s because talking longer is required to truly connect with her, make her feel emotions and click in a solid manner. The conversation in seduction matters a lot, it's not just exchanging words or information, it's making her feel intense emotions. That's when they truly like you when you make them feel a rollercoaster of emotions.

Girls feel attraction when you make them feel, not just by what they see.

Quality of your approach > quantity of approaches