Too many guys in here believe they don't deserve a really attractive women in their life, they have insecurities about there own value and it shows. What you need to do is stop focusing on women for a month, challenge yourself to do something really damn hard like running a 10k by the end of the month. Get some achievements and milestones under your belt that you worked hard as hell to get, make it something that very few people actually end up doing.

I quit smoking two weeks ago, started running for the first time and today I got on the treadmill only planning to do 2.5km at my max speed. Something strange happened and I just refused to stop running until I hit 5km. Two days ago I was struggling to hit 2.5km without breaks in-between but I just forced myself to keep on running and did 5km in 30 mins with no breaks.

The truth is, I was always capable of doing that, it was the mental barriers I hit that stopped me from realising what I could actually do. The same is true for game, you're probably more than capable of attracting and sleeping with beautiful women, you just hit mental barriers and let them stop you. You see her and you decide not to go say hi, you decide not to ask her on a date, you decide not to kiss her. Take some action, you'll be surprised by how well you do.

EDIT: What I’m really trying to get at here is that you need to impose some level of hardship on yourself. When I was a kid I did karate and the stretching routines literally involved my Sensei coming over and standing on my body parts to make me stretch that extra 10-20% that I thought I couldn’t do. The dojo was solid wood flooring and you’d be expected to hold stances with your heel to the ground for the entire session, if you moved, the Sensei would come over and put you back in that position. I continued doing those stretches at home and would push 10-20% further than I thought possible. When 6pm rolled around it was time to eat shit for an hour and feel like my ligaments were about to explode but I made I did it and was really good after a year. Adopt the same mindset in pickup, give yourself an hour where you are gonna eat shit, just get up, walk out of the house, go find a girl and say hi. What else sucks ass? Trying to escalate, well ask her to grab a coffee there and then if you get past the pleasantries.

There’s never a time that’s suitable for anything in life, it’s always inconvenient, you’ll never have the energy, she’ll never be in the perfect situation for you to approach.

So do it anyway.