Having coffee with a former high school crush tomorrow

Steve_Savage · 2017-12-25T23:17:43+00:00

You already know her, so just relax and reminisce about the good old days in school.

Austin2Leader · 2017-12-26T01:03:27+00:00

Just remember 3 things

Don't be needy.
Dress well.
Be confident

malarky44 · 2017-12-25T22:51:38+00:00

Hey man, anything is possible. Go have fun, something may happen this time. You may also be setting things up for the future.

mamapop · 2017-12-26T00:24:53+00:00

I recently met up with girl that I had kissed in my early high school days (about 7-8 years ago) and this was my thought process going into it. Hopefully this can help you.

Realistically this can go two ways. If you've been taking care of yourself odds are you look better now than you did then (god knows I do) and if she's willing to meet up with you after all this time then she probably feels the same way. You should probably decide if ASAP if you want something sexual or platonic from this girl because this will drive your actions on the "date". If you want something sexual try to initiate with her and be touchy/playful. Make good eye contact and have fun. She'll get the idea. If not have fun and catch up with an old friend. Moral of the story is don't make up your mind in the situation and do it before so you know what you want.

ImJustSo · 2017-12-26T00:50:37+00:00

She's not saving herself for marriage unless she's getting married this year. She's gonna bang or has banged already, so get that outta your head. You don't know what she actually wants. You know at least one things she wants, and that's to meet up with you.

Sit close to her, touch her often, playfully, etc. And when you can kiss her, then kiss her. See where it goes from there.

Don't talk about anything to do with a relationship, don't talk about maybe going further than kissing. Actions speak louder than words and women don't like being forced to say yes, just wait for a no on anything you're doing.

Chabubu · 2017-12-26T02:51:41+00:00

"What should I be trying to accomplish when I meet up with her?"

Your only outcome is to have fun. Joke with her, and yourself, have a good time. The only thing you can guarantee is that you're going to enjoy yourself and be a fun guy to be around.

aspark32 · 2017-12-26T01:55:18+00:00

The most important to focus on is you having fun. Not "gotta get laid" fun, but enjoy talking to her as a person, like an old friend. Hear what she's been up to and let her ask the same of you; you must have something exciting going for you if she wants to catch up!

Another thing you may want to do is make sure you're not putting her on the same pedestal on which high school crushes are usually put. That may have been what things were like last time you saw each other, but things have changed. You're on a new playing field. Good luck!

fredarmison75 · 2017-12-26T03:03:29+00:00

She sees you as a friend. Turn her on to change that.

Alextryingforgrate · 2017-12-26T04:12:03+00:00

first things first you both finished high school went to college/uni and got a taste of life.

That im saving myself for later usually only holds true when living with the folks. Now that she moved from mommies and daddies shes experienced some life probably had a chance to get some action. It also might be possible that she really is saving her self for marriage but i doubt that.

The question is what do you want to accomplish? Do you want to have a good xmas fucking or still be friends? Also realise that this can completely ruin a friendship, forever. It would be nice to go around and banging a bunch of chicks and getting sexual XP then coming back to said crush rock her world so shes calling you for a booty call or at best get married yada, yada. Problem is sometimes you dont get that chance. So what are you looking for a chance at something you want to accomplish or just continue on being friends wondering what it would be like?

MattED1220 · 2017-12-26T16:13:02+00:00

What do you want out of this? Do you eventually want to date her when you return from college? Are you just looking for a friend? Either way, you can start over. Don't focus on interview type questions. Be fun. Build off what she talks about. If she goes I love that band. You can ask if she ever wen to their concert? When she started likeing them? Maybe you know something about the band that you think she will find interesting.

Title	Having coffee with a former high school crush tomorrow
Author	d6walkon
Upvotes	34
Comments	19
Date	December 25, 2017 10:12 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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