Approaching girls everyday day 4:

At this point Im sure most of you guys will stop following my posts but I’m mostly just doing it to hold myself accountable so it’s perfectly okay if not too many people are reading this.

Today I was able to number close with a worker, there’s a little bit of a twist though.

At this point I’m basically working mostly 10 hours a day 5 days a week and off Friday night and Saturday all day so almost all of my approaches during the week have to be at work. Again, I work in a warehouse with 300-400 employees that are constantly rotating in and out and to all kinds of different positions so I am able to meet new people every day. If there’s ever a point where I feel like I am earning a bad reputation of player or something I will stop immediately and only approach outside of work.

I’ll start by saying I was approached first today by a woman who I think was maybe 35ish but I am completely unsure bc she could also be an old looking 20 something year old. She read my hat and told me it was cool and I was caught pretty off guard and was pretty tired so I just mustered up a “thanks “ or something and continued working. She was not somebody I was attracted to so I didn’t wanna flirt or anything but still wish I was able to say something and continue the conversation but whatever I’ll see her again.

Approached maybe 10-15 girls/ older women and just had normal conversations with them and wasn’t flirty at all. Some of them I just complimented on things I actually liked (shoes, shirt, whatever.) with no hidden agenda or weird pickup line after. I think one of my huge reasons for doing this is less about fucking girls every week and more of being able to talk to as many people as possible as I love meeting and learning about new people, so the only time I’m going to actually flirt is if I think it is worthwhile.

Anyways the cute little Spanish girl in my last post (who approached me and said hi but I had to quickly get back to work) was working today so I stopped her and talked to her for 10 minutes. It wasn’t over the top flirty it was more friendly but I think she’s a cool gal and towards the end she was getting a little flirty so maybe I’ll try to lightly escalate next time I see her and see what happens.

I was standing in line for a prize (my work gives out prizes if you work extra shifts) so I chatted up the girl behind me in line and she seemed super into it. We talked for a while and then when it was my turn to spin the wheel for the prize I won one of those fire sticks and ended up asking her if I could keep it in her locker and she was more than happy too. I definitely could’ve kept talking to her during break but I really wasn’t feel too good and wanted to just sit by myself. I think I will number close next time I see her.

And now for the number close. I saw a girl wearing a headscarf type thing and complimented it and she said thanks and kept working. Chatted her up slowly every time we passed each other and just gave her very very slightly flirty remarks until I thought she was feeling it. I told her I would trade her one of her headscarf’s for one of my cool hats and she agreed. At the end of the shift she ended up giving me her number. I texted her tho for a little and she said she has a bf so I said I’m new to the area I’m just looking for friends anyways. Overall still glad I approached and number closed and being “rejected” (I f you could even call it that in this scenario ) seems a lot less like a big deal ever since I started approaching.

Oh yeah and I was approached by one other girl who just asked me what kind of prize I won and other little small talk.

Thanks for reading day 4