Two dates in a row blocked my number after the dates?

joos11 · 2018-11-15T16:01:44+00:00

I have been blocked / not responded to in all circumstances. I’ve had really fun dates where we laughed and chatted plenty and did not fuck and i never see them again. I’ve also had great dates with romantic sexy kissing and touching ands cuddling that i never saw again. I’ve also had dates where i took her home and banged her and yes surprise surprise, never saw her again.

As frustrating as it is, you just can’t take it personally. My only advice is to have some kind of intimacy and leave her wanting more. Corny as shit but make a bet on the pool game and kiss her after you win. Also, as you know, the chances of seeing some of these chicken heads again can be rare, so make sure YOU have fun with the date, bang her if she’s down, and just have fun in the moment not worrying about what comes next.

GucciGuac · 2018-11-15T09:20:10+00:00

No your screwing up. Everything you do is right, up until you play pool. Playing pool does not help, it kills time. Your time of talking and other stuff, happens at the bar. Not at your place! When a chick is at your place you have to close the deal with her less than 15 minutes or else it becomes boring. When a chick is at your place she’s there for physical escalation. So instead of playing pool, lead her into your room and just sit on the bed with her. Talk about the fun time you had with her and compliment on her looks. The kissing part I assume you know what to do. Don’t do stuff at your place that kills more than 15 minutes because it really kills the flow. In other words By the time a chick is at your place she’s already down to fuck or kiss and yet your playing pool or wanting to watch a movie before doing that lol. Goodluck.

Phenxz · 2018-11-15T15:57:29+00:00

Dont overthink this.. You had a date. You got to know each other. These two girls didnt want to take it further, or you would have had sex with them. Something between you and the girls, they didnt feel clicked the way you felt it did. Accept that it wasnt meant to be because you weren't right for each other, and keep looking for other, better, matches to you.

I'll suggest you read msrk manson "models", to achieve a mindset where this doesnt demolish your selfesteem or confidence. The "what did I do wrong" mentality will wear you down in the long run, and you wont ever get to know why the girls flaked, so there's no point overanalysing what mistake you made. It'll obly shake yoir confidence and the number one attractor to women is confidence, so honestly, do your self a favor and don't give a fuck about why they didnt wanna get it on. They just decided no thanks, like you would an unattractive woman, they just had to spend some time with you to figure out if they were on or off.

ModernBaseball999 · 2018-11-15T20:17:01+00:00

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ModernBaseball999 · 2018-11-15T20:20:53+00:00

Thanks for all the advice everyone, I have another (different girl) date tomorrow and I’m gonna go try out the new things you guys said and let you know how it turns out. Will report back tomorrow night / Saturday morning

iot- · 2018-11-15T15:36:45+00:00

Have a relatively check your breath. Talk normal to them how you would with a woman then ask if your breath is ok. You have no idea how many people I come across and they don’t even know they have bad breath. If that’s a problem after brushing & mouthwash, a visit to a dentist will solve the issue.

SpookyKG · 2018-11-15T16:21:37+00:00

You're probably not as good at reading signals as you think.

I agree with others, have others check your breath and BO.

highoncatnipbrownies · 2018-11-15T18:39:43+00:00

I think its pretty obvious whats going on here. The pool table at your apartment isn't up to standards. Try inviting the next chick to a billiards hall or possibly go straight to the Mario Cart phase of the date. See if this change in tactics improves results.

kaythanna · 2018-11-15T14:38:52+00:00

First things first do not let the lower popolous female shattered your confidence. This is what they do. It has no rhyme or reason that would be apprent to the naked eye. They are intellectually inferior and literally vaule men like Logan Paul.... their opinion means shit.

Second 85% off women are homogeneous drones, much like the bitter egoist male counterpart. They do not like themselves and any strong validation will make them run from you or at the very least it respect you.

I went on a date with a guy which is rare because I'm pretty queer. I look straight, but anyone who knows me find my heterosexual experiments hilarious since I known for being such a lady lover. I went on a date and this guy kept acting unenthusiastic towards me, when he was the one who asked me out. He was really good looking if you like the homogeneous pretty boy look, 6ft+, strong jaw and from money. I'm a mixed chick from urban poverty, join the military to escape it and never get along with these types. He acted so engaged and interested at first when we first met but on the date he completely switched and tried to make me chase.

He did this because it's obviously work on the masses. You have to identify basic bitches and do basic shit. I'm sorry, that just how it goes.

I went to leave immediately and told him why exactly and very politely. He texted me and said he didnt mean to be a dick or emotionally distance and for another chance. I said no politely, because honestly I wrongly stereotype guys over 6ft, but I wont go into that. Long story short. Figure out who is basic and dont validate them consistently. So many guys who get these basic chick simply get them in a trap of trying to prove themselves worthy. I do this with girls which is why I was insulted he thought such simple shit would work. It does for the most part, I just have self esteem.

So if you know FOR SURE, you did nothing creepy. You were over eager and need to find out how to make her be grateful that she gets a chance. Or or or if you actually want a girlfriend. Go through these bitches, count your self lucky they blocked you and didnt waste time. Some guys spend months on these fickle whores some marry em. There are good women left, but not many to be honest. Save your fuck for the good ones.

Title	Two dates in a row blocked my number after the dates?
Author	ModernBaseball999
Upvotes	13
Comments	32
Date	November 15, 2018 7:34 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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