Dealing with shit from other guys

SpinEbO · 2015-03-27T14:12:15+00:00

Amused mastery is always the way to go:

Last night I was out with a slim fit shirt and some guys started trying to make fun of me about how it was too small. My response:

Me: Hey. My eyes are up here.

NickCiufi · 2015-03-27T14:43:02+00:00

When in doubt, agree and amplify.

leftyguitarist · 2015-03-27T15:15:39+00:00

I think you're writing off humor / amused mastery too quickly.

There is basically nothing that is above being laughed at.

thor_away92 · 2015-03-27T14:50:49+00:00

If it's offensive and not just general shit giving just go silent and look confused as to whh they'd make such a shit joke. I personally like to get serious about act all offended like you struck a childhood issue amd be like "woah dude too far"

If its just shit giving just roll with it.

Protip the more dominant you become the more you'll be tested. So get used to it.

T_H_E_T_R_U_T_H · 2015-03-27T14:36:42+00:00

The best thing you can do is suck it up and deal with it. Joke back. Pressure flips work great.

Now, if they haven't let up on it and are consistently talking down to you, I'd say get new friends. It's clear they don't respect you.

I've always been the guy to give someone shit. In fact, every time a friend of mine introduces me to a new girl or a mutual friend, they always have to preface with "don't mind T_H_E_T_R_U_T_H...he's gonna give you shit but he's cool once you get to know him."

But I always let up once we are comfortable with each other. I might occasionally talk shit but not constantly. That's just bullying.

AlkaloidSwag · 2015-03-27T17:08:54+00:00

I tend to turn it back at them. it's immature but if you're hanging out with people that have shit to give out in the first place they are either your good friends or immature.

example: (you: Y ; Guy :G)

G: so why are you talking to that girl, you know she's like a foot taller than you

Y: it's better than talking to your boyfriend all night.

G: that shirt makes you look like an indian guido.

Y: that's the point. I'm trying to fuck really dumb slutty girls that are attracted to shiny objects.

idk if that was a good conversation, but my point is to have banter. Scrambling for an 'alpha' position in the group at the beginning of the night will put you in the wrong mindset for game. And remember these guys are likely your friends they all just want to have a good time.

fnordsnord · 2015-03-27T17:47:37+00:00

The AMOG that I particularly hate, and have never gotten a handle on dealing with is the guy who KNOWS he's found a soft spot, and keeps coming back to poke it.

I can pretty much deflect any shit coming from any man or woman once, twice, three times, or even all night. But sometimes there will be a AMOG who's found that soft spot who has to stick a needle in it every hour. I find myself fantasizing about beating him into consciousnesses with a chair.

mindfucks · 2015-03-27T22:24:45+00:00

Ignore 'em, laugh it off, agree and amplify if you are genuinely thick-skinned, flip it back on them. There are lots of ways, it's just practice.

AZTRP · 2015-03-28T00:37:51+00:00

Easy guy. Being a minority, and/or short is not a defect. Anything about you is a feature and you should flaunt it as such.

I have a big head, it used to bother me when people said something about it until I realized, and informed them, that's it's bigger in order to hold my bigger brain. It's also a few inches thick of bone in order to better deliver head butts.

You're a minority? "White girls love exotic guys"

You're short? "Not as clumsy in bed and I can fly at a tall girls face easier for the ultimate in high altitude blow jobs"

it really doesn't matter how you reply as long as you maintain frame. Most of the time you can just babble off random shit, it doesn't even have to make sense.

favours_of_the_moon · 2015-03-27T17:03:43+00:00

Bang the dude's girlfriend?

Sometimes you just have to ask the dude to step outside. I know this is unfashionable nowadays, but frankly, I don't care of some bitch thinks I'm the one being the asshole.

Merwebb · 2015-03-28T02:27:54+00:00

Dont take things personal and return the ball as much and in the most different ways you can.

A = "Hey i did your mom last night" B = "shes hot right? Not like the ugly thing you call your mom"

Boom.

K1Tap · 2015-04-01T19:12:13+00:00

I'm short (5'5-5'6ish) Anytime I've ever gotten shit for my size I've put my hands on my hips and declared -I'm not "that" short. I'm a solid 5'6 with the wind- And just kinda stared into the distance like a superhero surveying the city.....

Can't tell you if it's the delivery, the shit eating grin, or the fact that idgaf about my height but it destroys any further comments.

Weight wise I've patted my stomach declaring the 6 pack is covered with a layer of ice to keep it cold.

Embrace who you are; work to change the things you can and learn to laugh at yourself. People tend to get more butt-hurt about having their target taken away by the very target themselves.

heatyourpipe · 2015-03-27T13:50:24+00:00

Where are you hanging out that you're constantly getting shit from other guys?
If they are your friends, than you have some re-evaluating to do.
I get shit from my boys but its rare, and it never bothers me. I cannot think of the last time I ever got shit from a random guy.
Know what your frame is, stand by it, and continue to grow.

stealthcreeper · 2015-03-27T14:27:01+00:00

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Title	Dealing with shit from other guys
Author	Ogudomang
Upvotes	17
Comments	37
Date	March 27, 2015 12:53 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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