Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret?

Sandvicheater · 2019-11-07T21:22:37+00:00

Show me a man who has slept with over a 100 women and I'll show that same man has been rejected 100,000 times.

hunterpua · 2019-11-07T21:01:47+00:00

Don't try to play everyone else's game and compete in that arena. Instead, play a different game that's almost "unfair" or "cheating".

Most of that is social engineering. Think the movie Catch Me If You Can.

For example, I have hot cousins and when I'm single and we're in the same city I always treat them to a night out and they think I'm amazing with women because every time I take them on a night out I also end up taking a girl home with me.

They have no idea that its the fact that I walked in with 3 hot girls that made me so interesting to the other girls there in the first place.

The reason someone would think that's cheating is because I didn't use any of my charm or "game" to get hot girls to go out with me, I just took advantage of the fact that I'm related to some.

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Another thing I've done is start a conversation with the hottest girl in the room or the girl that everyone is taking notice of by talking about a made up girlfriend or by pretending to be gay.

That immediately lowers all that girl's defenses so she becomes warm to me. Every other girl there sees that so they either think I've successfully chatted up the hottest girl there or they think I'm with her.

Either way, from that position I can get eye contact with different girls who are behind the hottest girl and then give them a nod, a point, or a wave. If I get any sort of positive response back I excuse myself from the conversation with the hottest girl and go straight into a conversation with that girl who showed me that I was welcome to come talk to her.

Guess what, I'm still looking behind her for other hot girls who would make eye contact and who I could nod to, to see if they would be interested.

What either happens is the first girl I talk to after the hottest girl is just so down that I take her home with me or she's just so-so, so I just take advantage of the endorsement she gave me to talk to the other girls I've been nodding and waving at behind her.

It gets easier the more girls you talk to because the interest compounds the more hot girls you're seen having good interactions with.

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Want another tip?

What if you wave at a girl, she gives you a positive response but she's in a group full of guys and you don't wanna deal with that?

Make a playful or cheeky expression/gesture from where you waved at her indicating that you're gonna do something mischievous so that she'll be ready for what you'll do next.

And what you'll do next is go over there and say, loud enough for her group to hear, "Hey! How have you been?? Its been so long! I can't believe it!"

Nobody's gonna cockblock you if they think you're just an old friend of her's.

Wanna take her out of that group so you can isolate and really work your charm on her?

Tell her, "Its so crazy. You know, Kate and John are back there, they won't believe you're here, we should go over there and surprise them. I'll also introduce you to my girlfriend (so the guys really don't think you're a threat). Would it be cool if I just borrow her for a second guys?"

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And a daygame tip for those of you who don't like going out at night:

Give a girl a big compliment and then walk away.

If you've never tried that you're in for a big surprise, because if you compliment them right, most girls will be ecstatic to have that happen to them.

But walking away is the key.

If you just stand there expecting something in return then she won't be into it, she'll get cold and give you one word answers while you try to get a conversation going.

But if you walk away after that compliment they'll be very happy and often try to catch up with you to say thank you.

That'll be enough to justify you stopping in your tracks, turning to her over your shoulder and saying, "You know what? You're really friendly. What's your name?" and she will happily have a proper conversation with you from that point, one where she actually uses paragraphs & sentences.

If you meet a girl who is ungrateful for receiving a compliment then you're already walking away anyway so just keep walking.

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sexualdream · 2019-11-09T04:48:49+00:00

Lol I used to hang out with a guy who went to get a massage parlour every weekend.

cleetusneck · 2019-11-08T04:32:35+00:00

Honestly my game is bad, it’s mostly about my situation (university athlete).. one of the best guys with women was my high school mate- if he would have made it to my spot- he would have fucked the whole world...

And as you get older and more confident you see all the insecurities of youth as lost opportunities..

appmanga · 2019-11-07T20:58:55+00:00

Keeping a straight face while telling a lie.

ThatBoiCJ · 2019-11-07T23:14:36+00:00

Go clubbing. I haven’t slept with 100 women but I could easily do that in a year if I really cared about it that much. But yeah, go clubbing and talk to any girl, you’re 99% likely to take her to your place and smash, everyone in the club is looking for a night kill.

cleetusneck · 2019-11-08T04:03:04+00:00

I was lucky, got to play a sport well and out grew some of my insecurities... to be honest I think 1000 and I would still feel like the tall skinny 15 year old kid that was voted “last to get laid” by my friends group (5 guys I grew up with) ... only connection matters, and I have been lucky enough to have had that, but also damaged enough to not value it as much as I should have...

cleetusneck · 2019-11-08T04:18:18+00:00

I don’t know you, so I can’t really give you advice... but I wish I had read “the game” when I was younger... as much as it is bullshit, he even says as much at the end, it also has a lot of insights on how we interact as men and women..

DirtyBuffaloo · 2019-11-08T17:07:45+00:00

I've slept with 30+

I'll comment here when I get to 100 haha

2019-11-10T07:27:10+00:00

Take a shower, shave, do a few burpees and you're golden.

IntrepidFoot · 2019-11-07T22:17:44+00:00

Be good looking and have fairly low(ish) standards! lol

(not me, but I have a few friends who have banged hundreds)

ChrisDarmount · 2019-11-08T02:37:06+00:00

I’ve fucked over 100 women.

Interestingly enough, for almost all that time I was a nice guy and made a lot of the typical nice guy mistakes.

The number one reason I was able to fuck that many women was desire. I really really fucking wanted it. So I went on a lot of dates. And figured out ways to meet women and fuck them. Mostly it was online. My strategy seem to have been to take them on a date and make them feel comfortable with me. Then on the first second or third date I would find a reason to get them back to my place. 90% of the time if they walked into my place I would end up fucking them. I don’t think I had any special game, I just went for it. And generally if a girl walks in to your place she wants to have sex with you. I never thought of woman as slits or whores if they wanted to have sex, I always assumed everyone wants to have sex. I’m a very kind and generous person and I love women and I think that did help.

It was extremely rare that the sex would happen after the third date. I can only think of two times this happened. The first was on the fourth date and it was with a virgin. The second time was on the seventh date and the girl was just finicky like that. And after we did have sex she was still finicky with the sex.

Most of the women were sixes and sevens. Once in a blue moon I’d land an 8 or a 9. But I’d say that happened less than 10 times.

Lately I’ve been going on dates with almost exclusively eights and nines and it’s a whole different ball game. All those nice guy things I did just don’t fucking work a lot of the time. If I bring the same nice guy game, the girls will have a fun time with me, but then say there’s no chemistry.

Although I will say that if I do manage to land at eight or nine from Tinder, there’s a high chance of it working out. I think this is because if the hot woman matches with you on Tinder and agreed to go out with you, she’s very interested for some reason. Because on Tinder she has like 10,000 matches. And the 8 to 9’s that I have matched with on tinder have been pretty spectacular experiences. I think this is probably because of high compatibility. Like they saw me and thought my specific facial features were especially attractive. Just a theory.

I’ve been using Hinge and day game to go out with most the 8’s and 9’s.

cleetusneck · 2019-11-08T04:26:38+00:00

It’s definitely not about money, I know tons of rich guys that can’t get laid.. one of the reasons they are rich because they probably thought it would make it easier (and it can help)

And it’s not about looks- (of coarse it helps) the guy I know who slept with the most was at most a 6, but he was bold- funny as hell- and always approaching women and letting his desires be known...

Have you ever been around a guy that’s natural with women? You can learn a lot..

cleetusneck · 2019-11-08T04:43:39+00:00

I went to university and he stayed in our small town.. I don’t think I’ve talked to him in like 20 years.. but I probably should

scarrax · 2019-11-08T21:58:03+00:00

Easy way: Pay for sex with 100+ different sex workers. It's expensive but it's guaranteed, and if you're rich it won't be a problem.

Hard way: Maximize your options by a) optimizing your looks, confidence etc. to make yourself appear more attractive to women, b) knowing your demographic niche and what sort of women you are most likely to attract and c) look for these women where you know you're most likely to find them. At the same time learn how to pursue sexual relationships with women by being upfront about your intentions. Once you're at a point where you know what you need to do to get laid, it's a waiting game from there. It will probably take years.

speedy_terror_yt · 2019-11-12T22:47:22+00:00

Win a mil then get them H o e s

Sexythrowaway252 · 2019-11-07T20:04:45+00:00

I’m gonna guess that either they’re a swinger and bring a female to swap, paid escorts, or are model tier attractive. That plus being older and accumulating the number over a period of time.

ArmitageShanks69 · 2019-11-07T22:35:13+00:00

There is no 'secret' involved. It is simply down to where one is on the pre-selection scale.

SHEaTHOUGHT · 2019-11-07T20:07:08+00:00

Money

DirtyBuffaloo · 2019-11-07T19:53:06+00:00

Go for females with low self esteem....just my guess

Title	Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret?
Author	DirtyBuffaloo
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Date	November 7, 2019 7:51 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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