I know that the romantic love with come in the future.

Land_of_the_Losers · 2024-04-14T04:03:25+00:00

"I worked on myself" = "I did whatever I felt like doing"

WornBlueCarpet · 2024-04-14T06:13:54+00:00

She made dating her number 1 priority around age 30?

I just wrote an answer the other day to a woman who is 31 and wants marriage and kids and is dating for that. She's single right now.

I answered her that she should have dated for that 5-10 years ago. Real life isn't a Hallmark movie. A fit handsome single man with a good job doesn't just fall in your lap when you're ready to date for marriage and children. Meeting people takes time. She might meet the guy of her dreams on her first day off college, but she might also not meet him before her late 20's. Both of those are unlikely, and the most likely time it takes for meeting someone you're interested in is somewhere in between those two. The point is, it's very unlikely to happen just because you decide that now you are going to "date with purpose".

Meeting someone takes time.

Getting to know them takes time.

Dating them takes time.

And if the relationship doesn't work out, it's back from scratch again. These 30 year old women suddenly woke up at 40 one day and don't understand what happened.

Mein_Tarnaccount · 2024-04-14T09:39:58+00:00

"I haven't been able to lock anyone down in 25 years on the dating market. Maybe having a child with Down Syndrome will finally make me attractive."

I mean, at least she has a plan, right?

Joaquino7997 · 2024-04-14T10:22:13+00:00

Whoever the hell is telling these women to have kids first and THEN go find a soulmate is either:

incredibly stupid, or
a failure in every facet of her (yes, HER) life

Standard_Hat6784 · 2024-04-14T03:44:23+00:00

f3wl · 2024-04-14T05:08:27+00:00

Financially secure with 2 baby daddy? Press x for doubt. Unless her real dad is picking up the tab

TwizzlersSourz · 2024-04-14T11:40:11+00:00

The coping just oozes through the screen.

destitiution · 2024-04-14T09:06:33+00:00

She did the ultimate litmus test for a man to step up and be a stepdad

DrDog09 · 2024-04-14T18:16:10+00:00

Permit me to take guess of what her profile is like:

Master degree in library science.
$150k in student debt.
Rode the CC too long.
'I have high standards' nothing less
2.5 cats.
Well stocked wine bar.
No savings to speak of.

bigdaveyl · 2024-04-14T12:31:54+00:00

Another one that is relying too much on tingles and doesn't realize that at some point, love is a choice.

Ambitious_Scientist_ · 2024-04-15T07:18:06+00:00

Dating has been her no. 1 priority since age 30?

I wonder what she has been doing since age 20 - I'm sure it wasn't all knitting scarves and playing board games.

TheHazeyKing · 2024-04-14T16:57:44+00:00

Just Focus On The Future.!!!! Love ❤️ All.!!

Title	I know that the romantic love with come in the future.
Author	polishknightusa
Upvotes	57
Comments	40
Date	April 14, 2024 2:35 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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