Women can have porn addictions too.

Ambitious-Reach-1186 · 2024-04-20T10:57:31+00:00

Like most damaging things with women, it's covered up and claimed that the men are worse about it to keep women's alleged social integrity intact. Which honestly, they never really had when you dig into the shit they do.

IceCorrect · 2024-04-20T09:39:02+00:00

When I see women complain about porn addicts bf on Reddit it can be sum to that women are insecure and want to punish men for her mindset. Next part is pleasing women, because you "owe" to her to keep hard as long as she want (which just show they believe porn is real). Last one is is problems with getting hard, which can be psychological problem, but like women like to said if he can get hard to MP4, but not for you then maybe she is the problem

Vegetable_Ad1732 · 2024-04-20T05:53:11+00:00

One third of porn surfers are women. from http://www.cnn.com/2009/LIVING/personal/07/24/o.women.watching.porn/ "In the first three months of 2007, according to Nielsen/NetRatings, approximately one in three visitors to adult entertainment Web sites was female; during the same period, nearly 13 million American women were checking out porn online at least once each month.

drnutsackridesagain · 2024-04-20T06:47:06+00:00

Porn makes women feel inadequate so they attack it. Porn is just weaponized. Everyone talks about porn giving a false perception of sex. 98% of men know porn is fake. They aren't watching it, seeing a man with his arm behind his back so the camera can get a better shot, and think - "so realistic!"

No one talks about the false perceptions TV put on women and relationships. Constant jokes about how having a big wiener is the only way to satisfy a woman sexually, and how all of the shows portray only things women have an issue with matter.

A lot of shows have entire episodes of the man learning what he did wrong in the women's eye and spending the entire episode making up for it. But The woman did the exact same thing to the man in the previous episode, he tried to talk about it, woman dismissed him, laugh track played - and it was all over in 5 seconds.

Infinite_Procedure98 · 2024-04-20T08:25:44+00:00

I know an insane amount of women who are into hentai

Naive-Dingo-2100 · 2024-04-20T12:18:11+00:00

Modern feminism is always shitting on porn. It just comes off as petty. They hate fleshlights too, but dildos are, of course, perfectly okay.

kkkan2020 · 2024-04-20T14:23:52+00:00

Wait....women watch porn? So they watch women on women or hetero?

Vaudeville_Clown · 2024-04-20T10:10:16+00:00

Yes there are, and also they need help getting their compulsions under control.

This is a sad debate on all counts tbh. You have nutbag liberal perspectives going "Nope! No problem with porn. Ethically produced and everyone's golden". Some bastard child of the "sex positivity" movement.

On the other side you have abolitionist, the old guard of anti-porn feminism, curiously joined hands with preachers and a wild bunch who seem to believe in 20th century anti-masturbation ideas.

It's so politicized that psychiatric associations can't even start defining porn addiction without walking into a political minefield. They just write "inconclusive" and go pursue something else.

At the end of the day, nobody gets any qualified help.

Plenty_Lettuce5418 · 2024-04-20T08:00:26+00:00

u should see all the M4F asmr videos and how many of them are sexually oriented. u can see a lot of the fantasies that are desirable there.

ForTheRobot · 2024-04-20T13:33:02+00:00

Yes, and a lot of women manifest this as Only Fans stuff.

sanitaryinspector · 2024-04-20T10:59:58+00:00

Everything entertainment isn't real and can't be entirely trusted for information. The thing with porn is that it teaches sexuality before everybody else can.

It's like learning to interact with people from TV shows instead than from family and peers: you'd be on the wrong dynamics.

The reason why sexuality isn't taught to pre pubescent kids is because we're so prudish about having animal like needs, and we horrify in remembering how unprudish we were before puberty. We fear that, if we taught kids sexuality, little girls would end up whoring and little boys would end up assaulting. I believe that being rude and uncompassionate in a sexual matter has very little to do with knowing how sexuality works

thereisnoedinz · 2024-04-20T13:03:08+00:00

I think that's (kind of) due to the "women are wonderful phenomenon." However this just means that women are less likely to receive help for severe porn addictions. This isn't a Men's Rights issue. This a Women's issue that they have to sort out. Not our problem.

veerkanch489 · 2024-04-20T16:02:38+00:00

Yea it's a sexist viewpoint that's commonly stated on relationship subs like AITAH/relationship advice/TwoHotTakes(kind of a relationship sub with more bitter women than AITAH)

MRA-automatron-2kb · 2024-04-21T06:48:33+00:00

Dr Phil blames men for this.

NCC-1701-1 · 2024-04-21T15:46:21+00:00

A lot of young women are trying to monetize porn on only fans and feminists cheer it on. Kind of hard to take their criticism seriously.

BayouGrunt985 · 2024-04-21T02:20:20+00:00

Lifeteen never talks about this at all....... its always a man's problem according to them and they've deferred to third wave feminism more than they want to admit

GCsurfstar · 2024-04-21T02:55:28+00:00

Every single man is a demon porn addict???

Where are you guys hearing these things other than the internet? Do people actually talk to you all like this? Are these personal experiences?

I am on your side but I fear we are landing ourselves in some abnormal echo chambers, convincing us of things that aren’t the norm whatsoever. There are a lot of posts here that I feel are coming from a genuine place of frustration but are completely detached from the actual root of that frustration. The vast majority of women, and men are pretty chill day to day and statements like the one above are not common in the slightest.

Character_Map_6683 · 2024-04-22T06:07:58+00:00

Many of them do. Many women get their standards for sexual attributes from porn. They are more impressionable than men because fantasy stuff like porn is more easily confused with reality for women and even if it isn't influences their fantasy life which is just as important for women.

Huitzil37 · 2024-04-20T12:43:36+00:00

No they can't, because "porn addiction" isn't real. It's made up bullshit by sexual conservatives who are disgusted that other people like what they don't.

Title	Women can have porn addictions too.
Author	TheRealJamesHoffa
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Date	April 20, 2024 5:35 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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