Hello, first post but I never understand why people automatically assume HVM = sleeps around.

Growing up, chads at my high school and college were the friendliest people. Pre-glow up when I was more of a Becky, they treated me very nicely. They are also academically driven, and almost all of them are still in an LTR with their high school sweetheart. I'm 22 btw.

I have consumed red pill content from oh-so influencers and people in support are like "Yeah, HVM pumps and dump women, yeah." At first, I thought like that but then I realized most of these people were not even born chads and with a little background check, look like they probably got bullied at middle-high school. Even the content creators themselves after seeing their HS-college photos.

Now that brings up something in my head. The natural born Chads are in healthy LTRs living a quiet life and doesn't seek VALIDATION through sleeping around because they've been validated their whole life. SLAYERS glowed up late and are chasing validation through sex but then it's so funny because some of these men end up realizing sleeping around is soul draining and eventually end up in LTRs themselves!

The models who are 9/10+ like Chico Lachowski, Sean O'Pry, etc all have ended up in LTRs and Chico is married as well with a kid. These are the most genetically superior men and they didn't "slay" around.

So I feel like I found the realization that true HVM don't sleep around. The "slayers" are men who never got the validation natural born chads did so they seemed it later and end up being drained anyway.

This is also the same case for Stacies! The natural born Stacies (Model Romee Stridj is married to her Chad high school sweetheart) are in healthy LTRs while the ugly duckling Stacies are also racking up body count as validation.

May I ask what y'all think?