Girl denied date saying it’s too early.

abaldingmillenial · 2024-05-08T05:40:39+00:00

Just go out with the girl but don’t post anything on your story about it that just makes you look petty. Just slowly withdraw your attention from the first girl and if she shows interest again great, if not then she’s not the one for ya and you’re onto better things

benjibenz · 2024-05-08T05:40:43+00:00

If she’s saying it’s too early that’s her loss. If you’re vibing and she doesn’t want to meet up that means she wants a pen pall not a date. Go for the other option, don’t post a story and find other girls, it might even make this one magically no longer think it’s too early

BuyerOfCoins · 2024-05-08T09:48:26+00:00

First girl seems like she's just looking for attention. Been there done that, if she comes back then thats that but leave it for now. Either way, she's not relationship material.

NoMoassNeverWas · 2024-05-08T09:44:44+00:00

Ask yourself, do you want a woman that wants you because she's jealous that you're with another woman? Post a story of you going out, at dinner, etc, but don't introduce that "im with another girl" shit.

See it in 3rd person, it's petty revenge to satisfy yourself, not to get her.

I've had girls say they're not comfortable to go on date yet, but I continued to speak to them and secured one. Some are just inexperienced with OLD or too shy.

Think of it this way, texting is zero effort for you. However if she's not getting any warmer towards a date, you have to tell her that you don't see much reason to continue conversing pen pals if she's not interested in meeting irl.

I find that women respond a lot more to someone who communicates clearly to what they want than does the passive aggressive ghosting. We both have egos and protect our ego, but men should have no ego because we're men.

Competitive-Ask4393 · 2024-05-08T10:06:24+00:00

High chance she’s only speaking to you because she’s either bored or wants attention.

Move on or keep her on the back burner on the off chance she’s genuine and just a slow dater

TRTGymBro1 · 2024-05-08T11:27:36+00:00

lol, I've had women dying to go out with me after a 5 minute conversation and sometimes wanting to sleep with me that fast. And you think some chick who's been wasting your time for two weeks isn't there just toying with you and manipulating you?

CrazyRepulsive8244 · 2024-05-08T05:49:27+00:00

Two weeks is definitely long enough. She may just be an emotional or anxious or shy person. You said it's the cultural norm though. It sounds like you have the right idea for moving forward.

Id agree don't bother posting a story with another girl. She might be too emotionally fragile to handle it if she does have the aforementioned emotional problems. Stuff like that works best on confident women, I feel like (may be wrong) because they have more confidence in themselves to compete

But that last part is just speculation, untested for now

jjboy91 · 2024-05-08T11:56:59+00:00

Post a story wtf dude, she's not that interested if she can't spare one hour during her week to go for a walk with you and get to know you.

safestuff987 · 2024-05-08T14:08:15+00:00

Go on the date with the other girl, but don't post about it on social media because nothing good will come of it. As guys we hate it when girls play games, don't be part of that problem.

ForeverSolitary · 2024-05-08T15:11:12+00:00

Next.

SaaSWriters · 2024-05-08T07:32:27+00:00

You won’t make her jealous because she doesn’t care about you.

But definitely move on to actual options.

Title	Girl denied date saying it’s too early.
Author	Many-Calligrapher-90
Upvotes	3
Comments	24
Date	May 8, 2024 5:13 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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