Australia is going through a "gendered violence reckoning" with many people claiming that the situation is so bad, it needs to be declared a National emergency. The general ask is that "men need to do better".

There have been lately a few more rational voices (some, from unsuspected places) asking what's the validity of the claim and questioning the effectiveness (and moral validity) of the collective blame accusation directed at men.

I found Josh Szep's take very very useful, have a listen if you can:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=98qSsnninLM

His takes, not only on this topic, are generally vey grounded in facts and he offers a balanced view of whatever he discusses.