Just a rant I guess. I'm tired of this.

No, I'm not moving money to be spiteful, the reality is until I decided to take a look at our finances, we were consistently going negative. STBXW just started working again after 8 months, her check goes in to her own account. I moved my check in to my own account and continue to pay everything from that account (her car payment,mortgage, utilities, insurance, childcare, etc)

WTF is the double standard? Am I just supposed to let her keep draining the account negative so she can spend it on fast food,.booze, and her attorney?

We don't have any savings anymore. Hell, she texted me that we owed our son's tuition (about $900) and then withdrew $1240 leaving us with $17 on the account. How the hell am I supposed to manage that?

This is dumb.