How can I have an abundance of women and get women to invest in me?

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-06-03T16:53:45+00:00

You got the right idea, focusing on being a good conversationlist is huge because it gives you the means to meet anyone you want. It's not easy for many guys, I'm autistic a.f. so I had to learn differently over time since social cues and proper tone didn't come naturally to me...then I had to unlearn half of what I learned...

I really didn't get a good start on the abundance thing until I disregarded most of what the manosphere and p.u.a. communities had to say because most of the content is geared towards modern women...girls I don't actually want in my life, even for casual flings.

Eventually it went further than that. I had to get the "jargon" out of my head. You hear about "demonstrating abundance and competence...etc...etc...cold approaching and preselection etc..etc..." then it hit me: who tf talks like that?! The mental internal lessons I got from the manosphere was actually hindering my conversations because those words were floating around my head.

"Cold approaching", for example; shouldn't even be in our vocabulary...it makes meeting women a "campaign" fraught with strategies and "try hard" energy. I just started meeting people without a reason or excuse, and continue to talk to those who I find interesting and can bring mutual gain to each other's lives. If some of those people happen to be attractive women and we ended up flirting and becoming a thing; it's just a positive side effect of the main goal of expanding my network.

3amInMoscow · 2024-06-03T21:41:13+00:00

Wear a silly mustache, always works

TRTGymBro1 · 2024-06-03T23:46:12+00:00

Ask yourself: why would women find me sexy? Once you have listed 50 things, ask yourself this: why should some random hoe on the street be worthy of a guy like me?

Kobe_curry24 · 2024-06-03T17:56:03+00:00

You just go where the woman are be conversational , social and try to gain as much experience asap , the next Step is throwing your own parties or being a promoter , but always remember if you can’t master one woman you can’t master 5 woman , the beatings will continue untill your moral improves

No-Veterinarian4846 · 2024-06-03T19:14:33+00:00

Right now I’m in the same boat. I used to pay girls online for “shows” but not anymore . It gave them too much power and made me weak . Haven’t done it in a while and I feel a lot better . Started focusing on other things and made me realize I was living life like a loser.

The concept is this . Talk to her . Oh you don’t like me cool maybe the next girl will . Oh your very pretty but never mind your values/personality etc don’t align with mine You’re the prize not her . Treat her like a celebrity and she’ll treat you like a fan . There’s so many women out there that will match with you . You just have to be who you truly are that way your confidence is unshakable. Us men are just too afraid of rejection .

spacemangoes · 2024-06-03T16:22:35+00:00

Have something going on in your life. If you want them to stick around. You gotta make a life for yourself to pull them in. If you just want to get with girls, go with shotgun approach.

TheCallOfBoooty · 2024-06-03T16:39:16+00:00

Work on finding yourself.. start feeling comfortable in your own skin.. rewire your brain for abundance mindset.

Ok-Entertainer-1401 · 2024-06-03T16:43:56+00:00

Wear a bra over your t-shirt/jacket. This will show people that you are a go-getter and have an idgaf attitude.

Ouki- · 2024-06-04T21:57:37+00:00

Define clearly what you want. What does girls investing in you actually mean ? What is an abundance of women ? You want sex with hotter and hotter girls ? Say it to yourself, don't be afraid.

Then skip all the bs of becoming a person they like or whatever. "You" want to have sex, not a damn persona mask of you lying to get what he want. Just go approach again and again, asking for girls what you want. It's that simple, on paper at least.

All the gap that keeps away from your goals, if it's sex, is anxiety when speaking to a girl. And her not being into you. Solution to those are keep improving yourself along the way (clothes, muscles, general appearance), and talk to more girls. With more experience you're less afraid of what you're doing -> conveying more confidence -> getting more result -> feeling more entitled to it -> getting more etc. Gotta catch that virtous circle.

But it starts with being honest with what you want, where you're at, and sticking to it never quitting. That's my 2cent tho

Upset_Painting3146 · 2024-06-04T04:42:41+00:00

boom-wham-slam · 2024-06-03T16:50:10+00:00

Be more confident. Just imagine someone girls call an asshole... and act like that.

Aggressive_Base_684 · 2024-06-03T16:35:42+00:00

Be attractive

GoGetter0130 · 2024-06-03T16:18:17+00:00

Do a lot of approaching

MrAnonPoster · 2024-06-03T16:29:36+00:00

Be someone whom they view as a value to them

garnageman · 2024-06-04T15:23:58+00:00

Invest in yourself, make sure your focus in life isn't women but your own personal success, whatever that means to you. Have goals and accomplish them. As for abundance, understand that there are 4 billion women in the world. The abundance is there, talk to women, but focus on your goals, it will all come together.

Title	How can I have an abundance of women and get women to invest in me?
Author	ManyOriginal8653
Upvotes	13
Comments	43
Date	June 3, 2024 4:07 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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