What are ways a girl can play hard to get, whilst showing she is interested?

RestingBitchFace_1 · 2024-07-16T19:05:59+00:00

What about 'drop the bs and just be truthful to yourself ' ?

If you play games, you're bound to find someone who will just go fuck some other girl instead.

username161013 · 2024-07-16T19:19:46+00:00

That's the neat part, YOU DON'T! Playing hard to get just tells the guy that you're not interested, you don't respect him and his time, and you'd rather play with his emotions that be honest with him.

It's a massive red flag.

Life is too short to play games. Just be honest and you'll be a lot happier.

MrAnonPoster · 2024-07-16T19:25:48+00:00

She is not playing hard to get - she is just not interested

pissshitfuckcuntcock · 2024-07-16T19:22:01+00:00

Just don’t do it? You’ll turn away most guys, and only attract the ones who like the ‘game’ of resist and reward and they generally aren’t relationship material and will drop you once they have their prize.

LiplinerIsEssential · 2024-07-16T19:13:13+00:00

I think it’s nice to say things like “I find you very attractive” so there is no question about what you want but then give space for them to miss you.

OkProfessional9405 · 2024-07-16T19:10:46+00:00

Hard-to-get his a game you play that amuses you. It isn't a game men enjoy or want to play. You could just as easily ask 'How do I not tell my waiter what I want for dinner, but still get him to bring me what I want for dinner?' However you accomplish that you'll just annoy your waiter.

What would be wrong with being fun, flirtatious and agreeable?

GhostWCoffee · 2024-07-16T19:11:54+00:00

Playing hard to get makes you hard to want, except for creeps or really persistent guys that know about your facade. It's fine to take things slowly and tell him that, but you know what else? No means no. So don't be surprised that you make guys think that you're not interested.

Adventurous-Soup-646 · 2024-07-16T19:34:49+00:00

Don't do that. This is the B.S. we men are trying to avoid cause we don't want to get Me Too-ed

Acceptable_Act1435 · 2024-07-16T19:57:47+00:00

Every time a women starts playing hard to get with me, I immediately lose interest and stop wanting her. The same way women look for confidence in a man, I want a woman who goes for what she wants and doesn't wait for someone to fight for her.

coldbrew18 · 2024-07-16T21:49:50+00:00

Anything less than a billboard is too subtle for guys.

FuckdaFireDepartment · 2024-07-16T19:38:41+00:00

Play hard to get with me and I’ll play hard to find. As in you won’t ever see me again bc I’ll be bagging a chick who’s worth my time

turgid-code · 2024-07-16T19:37:17+00:00

Playing hard to get is for men: either they actually are unavailable, or posing as unavailable to seem higher status.

As a woman, you just go tell a man you like him and make time for him, whether it's causal or not. You can delay sex as long as he is willing to...but no longer.

Being "hard to get" as a woman means you legitimately don't have time or interest for one dude. So that's the signal you are sending.

GhostWCoffee · 2024-07-16T19:12:00+00:00

Playing hard to get makes you hard to want, except for creeps or really persistent guys that know about your facade. It's fine to take things slowly and tell him that, but you know what else? No means no. So don't be surprised that you make guys think that you're not interested.

RackTheDripper · 2024-07-16T21:20:34+00:00

Hard to get, don't get got.

nordik1 · 2024-07-17T02:07:30+00:00

I highly suggest not doing that. It just signals for us to go find another girl who is actually interested

Dandys3107 · 2024-07-17T06:07:56+00:00

I guess you can simply control physical escalation, for it to be congruent to your actual sexual tension and dynamics. Don't send mixed signals, rather make gradual progress from scratch to fully enjoy the process of developing a relation.

Much-Anywhere-940 · 2024-07-16T19:19:20+00:00

Sowing seeds/ideas, temptation but resistance, warmth only to pull away, no outright sexuality, be available but make it clear you have other options, unless s/he is forthright and passionate ignore.

brandosrealm · 2024-07-16T20:00:22+00:00

Show interest and let him get to know you while not being a total open book

ConfidentMongoose874 · 2024-07-16T20:07:52+00:00

Play stupid games win stupid prizes.

Western-Month-3877 · 2024-07-16T20:12:10+00:00

You know far too often guys think (or wishful thinking, if you will) that a woman plays hard to get while in reality she’s simply not interested and just trying to be polite.

This is why in my experience I don’t see a lot of women play hard to get, I’ve learned how to distinguish real interests from women or they just try to be nice.

Here’s my cost-benefit analysis: let’s say you’re an 8 or 9, and you play hard to get. With my experience in the past I will deduct it as: why would I have to play her game, thus wasting my time, while I could use that exact same amount of time to get another 8-9 with better probability.

Dinkinflicka43 · 2024-07-16T20:02:58+00:00

Don’t play those games

SalamanderNo3872 · 2024-07-16T20:05:27+00:00

Don't play games... men hate games

razama · 2024-07-16T19:26:00+00:00

These comments are wild

You literally are doing nothing wrong, it’s just logistics at this point. You need a circumstance where hooking up can happen and you’re good!

RestingBitchFace_1 · 2024-07-16T19:02:00+00:00

I hope you get an STD from this tall chad and pass away.

Title	What are ways a girl can play hard to get, whilst showing she is interested?
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Date	July 16, 2024 7:00 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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