3rd date - when to kiss her?

Such_Ad_2442 · 2024-09-02T12:42:50+00:00

You should do it on 2nd date

vergil_never_cry · 2024-09-02T14:09:08+00:00

Make a god damn move or say hello to the friendzone, maybe you are already in it.

Being called a “Nice guy” and patting yourself on the back is hilarious.

mrmukherjee · 2024-09-02T12:47:04+00:00

Touch her shoulder, hands, and waist with both your hands and be smooth with the transitions. Go for a hug and hold tightly. Kiss cheek, kiss forehead wait for 2 seconds and make eye contact and go for it.

Pyroftw3 · 2024-09-02T13:58:04+00:00

just putting this out there before it happens, she will friendzone you because you will not try anything and when you eventually try she will say "we should just be friends".

Don't say i didn't warn you bro ;)

mister_k1 · 2024-09-02T14:01:36+00:00

she says I’m a really nice guy

you're so deep in the friend zone hole you ain't seeing light anymore

GiotaroKugio · 2024-09-02T16:34:08+00:00

you have to be trolling , is it even established that its a date or you are the only one that thinks that?

Pharmanomic · 2024-09-02T15:28:56+00:00

Third date???? I hit a home run on the first or second (30+ dates the last two years). Have always kissed on the first date. These same girls are all sleeping with guys on the first date and making you wait. Are you buying them fancy dinners too?

ChoiceTank · 2024-09-03T22:50:50+00:00

Two dates ago

srwat · 2024-09-02T12:45:17+00:00

When to kiss her? If you both been building up a vibe together which shouldn't be an issue if you've been progressively introducing higher and higher levels of kino into the mix, you'll feel the moment easily enough.

If you haven't really been touching her, you're going to need to look to introduce kino this time around, being aware of her comfort levels, and progressively increasing it in a way where she won't find intrusive but will find inviting.

Then the kiss will just come naturally. Just be in the moment. Don't be attached to the outcome. Don't even be thinking about when the right time to kiss is, or you won't be in the moment, and each moment you miss, can be each moment the vibe gets closer to flickering out.

Just be relaxed, vibe, and you'll feel when it's the time to kiss her. You subconscious won't betray you unless you block it through nervousness/anxiety/overthinking from working.

JackSquirts · 2024-09-02T13:11:24+00:00

Asking her to your place is going to sound like you want sex, but it also seems like you haven't been at all giving out that vibe.

Read the "should I tell her" post pinned on my profile. The last half in particular.

Fast-Fact5545 · 2024-09-02T13:53:56+00:00

Kiss her on the 3rd date. Don't ask to go back to your place.....unless SHE brings it up.

pp604977 · 2024-09-02T14:00:58+00:00

Isn’t there a saying, the best time was yesterday, now is today? 😬

AngryGoose21 · 2024-09-02T14:15:20+00:00

I wait for a lull in the convo, look deeply in her eyes and just say that I really want to kiss you. I haven’t had a girl say no ever

Pyroftw3 · 2024-09-02T14:59:14+00:00

I kinda don't understand how it works, you said you gotten attractive girls in relationship(not sure if there was sex but i guess there was) and you say you are anxious and nervous with this girl.

How many girls did you have sex? i am asking just because i am curious and wanna see what waiting for 10 dates before sex gets you.

Also seems you are doing all that a lot of dates and acting like a nice guy just to get in their pants and you think you can't do the same on first date. I personally think you are the opposite of nice guy because you being dishonest to yourself and the girl, you want to have sex with then on the first date but you put a act like you are a nice guy so the girl thinks you are interested in her actually

Careless_Economist89 · 2024-09-02T15:32:27+00:00

Most people would say the kiss belongs on the second date, but I think the third date is a great time for a kiss, assuming you’ve been gradually escalating and been clear about your intentions. Waiting until the third date gives an exciting air of uncertainty and shows that she might not be easy, but neither are you. This is especially the case if you don’t want to have sex until you’re married. If that’s the case, things like the kiss will naturally take a little bit slower.

Amazing_Broccoli_316 · 2024-09-02T15:42:02+00:00

There is a saying, when you think you can kiss her, you could have kissed her 10 minutes ago

Title	3rd date - when to kiss her?
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Date	September 2, 2024 12:32 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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