My gf had a threesome in the past now I want to have one too

coldbrew18 · 2024-09-24T02:55:36+00:00

This is the wrong sub. But honestly, work through it or dump her. She’s consenting but not enthusiastically.

asanskrita · 2024-09-24T02:41:59+00:00

Nothing wrong with wanting a threesome, but it sounds like you are rushing her into something, which is not likely to lead to a good outcome.

Have you talked about what she did and didn’t like about her previous experiences? Do you know what you are open to and what she and your friend are both open to? If you want it to be a good time for everyone, keep your relationship, and possibly do this on a repeated basis, you need more communication around things going in.

I had a woman I was dating absolutely melt down after a friend and I hooked up with her. I’ve seen people’s marriages blow up over unexpected jealousy over seeing a partner have sex with someone else. I’ve also had everyone have a great time. Honestly a threesome with two guys can be more fun than you think, there’s less pressure to perform, dudes are generally just more open to stuff, and it’s fun watching people fuck. But YMMV.

qDefiant · 2024-09-24T02:27:42+00:00

This can’t be real. If a girl regrets something and you try to force her to do it again, that makes you a pretty terrible person. I’m trying so hard not to judge but it seems like you’re just trying to use her for your fantasy and that it isn’t love.

870P_ · 2024-09-24T02:42:11+00:00

When you get in a relationship with someone, you accept the whole person, as is. If you don’t, the relationship is doomed.

rich_god · 2024-09-24T02:29:58+00:00

Wtf why would have a problem with her having a threesome in the past ? That’s one of the most insecure shit I’ve read in a long time.

“To even the scale” ? Dude you need therapy, not a threesome.

jollyrancher_74 · 2024-09-24T02:35:52+00:00

At least it wasn’t 2 dudes.

KumaFGC · 2024-09-24T02:57:51+00:00

Get that threesome homie

No-Buyer-6278 · 2024-09-24T02:48:09+00:00

Not sure why you’re getting hate here but yeah it sucks you fell in love with a thot. This is what happens.

pinki-me · 2024-09-24T02:39:41+00:00

Bro..you need to download more brain cells. Youre your own problem

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-09-24T03:31:06+00:00

So you're going to make your girlfriend have a sexual experience that she doesn't want to have, just so you stop getting jealous of what she did before dating you?

This isn't a seduction issue so it really doesn't belong here, but my best advice to you is to grow the fuck up.

You're in your late 20s. Do you really think everyone you date is going to be a nun before meeting you?

Here's a hard fact that a lot of guys don't want to admit: If you want to be with a woman that loves to fuck, you're gonna have to accept that she loved fucking before you came along. The whole alpha bro podcast mentality of "if she had more than three partners before 30 she's a ho" was made by dudes who were mad that they weren't getting any pussy in the first place.

Seriously, get over it and don't force her to have a threesome unless you want to break up, because you will.

Significant_Use_726 · 2024-09-24T03:34:22+00:00

Grow a backbone

LonerOnSorensen · 2024-09-24T03:37:22+00:00

I've read more than I need to, charge it to the game and break up with her.

Apprehensive_Alps157 · 2024-09-24T04:12:41+00:00

Break up

Alucard1331 · 2024-09-24T02:36:37+00:00

This screams insecurity

vtribal · 2024-09-24T03:13:59+00:00

so you knew she was a bop, you didn't like that yet still decided to get into a relationship with her

crazy how pussy will change a man

AceSpadez369 · 2024-09-24T02:40:34+00:00

Honestly I think you’re doing the right thing. This will either add to her trauma or help her deal with it. Maybe she needs to do it again to get over the last time and come to grips with it. This might be the best thing you can do for her mental health and your relationship. I say move forward and try to just make this a regular thing. If this other girl ends up being cool you can even test the water with polygamy.

Natural_Pin8388 · 2024-09-24T02:42:36+00:00

Give her a threesome experience with 2 dudes and pass it. The next guy with her will arrange foursome and would pass her to the guy who would arrange Fivesome or whatever and the cycle would go on and on..

imfjcinnCRAAAAZYHEY · 2024-09-24T03:02:46+00:00

Your mindset/psychology... Is skewed.

"I can't get over- I can't for the life of me, even with time get over this"

"...girl I met through dating app... I feel I need to even the score. I need to have a threesome. Maybe we'll be okay..."

Her: "there's a score?"

Instead. You accept. A person told you their past. Big whoop. They got into shit. Big whoop. They had fun. Big whoop.

She's here. Your here. Your past is not. Bringing the past back, complicated things.

She had a threesome with her (assume) (girl)friend, whom she already was freaky with because girls be girls, and possibly some random dude. 🤷‍♀️ Ahah like whatever.

I accept. I accept this image of the person I am with, and if it changes or alters, I will appropriately address it, no change, here's my reason, nice knowing you.

Title	My gf had a threesome in the past now I want to have one too
Author	Atilob
Upvotes	0
Comments	40
Date	September 24, 2024 2:22 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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