Anyone approached a girl in her place of work ?

shittybillz · 2024-09-28T02:27:45+00:00

Yes. Three times. I used to sell tech services to small businesses so I’d visit businesses constantly.

Once was an optometrists assistant and we went out a few times. Once was a doctors assistant and she rejected me, and once was a tanning salon girl and she told me she was 17 (I was 25, oops), she looked older I swear.

I only do it when I’m very confident they’ll say yes. Lots of eyes and flirting. I got rejected because she didn’t give me any signs, she was just so beautiful I had to try.

Just take notice of the signs and go for it. It probably helped that I was well dressed and there for work though.

therealwoujo · 2024-09-28T01:34:39+00:00

Don't do it. They are getting paid to be nice to you.

The only reason you are even asking is because you are too afraid to ask regular girls in the wild.

IndoCaribboy · 2024-09-28T03:24:51+00:00

I don’t get why this is so looked down upon

321sleep · 2024-09-28T05:27:00+00:00

As long as it’s brief, welcome and not creepy it’s all good

brise-mysterieuse · 2024-09-28T06:28:40+00:00

yeah, i became a regular at an upscale cocktail bar. she’s one of the employees at the bar.

overtime i became friends with her and asked her out recently and she agreed to go out with me.

i’m still seeing how it plays out. i had situations where this method didn’t work out and it’s purely a numbers game.

i learned don’t focus on any particular outcome and go with the flow. most situations won’t work out.

Infamous_Anonyman · 2024-09-28T09:46:59+00:00

Yeah!

But it won't be very direct because of the nature of the contact.

There was this cute asian girl that made poké bowls. I used to frequent the location due to work.

First smiling and some small talk, then proceeded to some longer in depth convo's.

Eventually i just asked her number when i felt the vibe was good. Chatted for a bit, called, flirted.

I fumbled because i was talking to a lot of women at the same time and didn't give her enough attention. And she also wanted to be taken on proper dates, those which i only do with women i want to get serious with.. i just wanted to have sex with her.

Eventually dated a girl and stopped texting her. When i texted her again (lol, i'm a dick i know) she was very cold obviously and i had missed my chance.

So yeah it's possible, just be sure to read her well and tread carefully as to not make it akward of nargly for her.

Practical_Lie_7203 · 2024-09-28T16:54:03+00:00

Don't hit on someone who has to interact with you and can't back out of the interaction.

ayyystunna · 2024-09-28T22:33:09+00:00

I wouldn’t recommend unless you’re a regular and you can tell she treats you differently than others there.

That being said, I just asked out a girl at place she worked and had sex after the first date.

She works at my gym where I regularly go. I had recently missed a Tuesday, one of the days she works.

I go in the Thursday and get my towels from her after lifting and she says something along the lines of “I thought you disappeared” I laugh and say I was there yesterday. She tells me she works Tuesday and Thursday and I say ‘I won’t let her down and I’ll be there next Tuesday’. She says something like ‘you better be’.

That next Tuesday I ask her if she wants to hang out sometime and she nods. So I pass her my phone.

We hung out the next day had dinner and she came back home with me after.

I would say if you can strike up a little conversation and if they seem warm and you are a regular it’s a good thing to do. Probably wouldn’t want to do it while it’s busy

eastfuse · 2024-09-28T01:13:15+00:00

At work, no. They are paid to be in this position and obliged to communicate with you.

tabure67 · 2024-09-28T04:43:55+00:00

I was flirting with a girl for 2 - 3 months, actually she was being flirty with me.

Yesterday, I asked her out after work hours and she replied me: After 16h? ahahha
We were negotiation/flirting this date for 4 days and then she's surprised. She didn't know what I meant. Yeah how not.

She's a scumbag or she got scared.

You need to show intent non-verbally. Let her guess. I had 2 girls from bank where I work, so just do it. It's more uncomfortable for males than females because they need to save their 'moral'.

burncushlikewood · 2024-09-28T07:42:12+00:00

Umm does a strip club count? I could approach a woman anywhere cause I got balls

Beginning_Disaster81 · 2024-09-28T10:59:22+00:00

Yeah.....try not to do that ...even as a man that's creepy and a recipe for mace with a side of restraining order.......unless you're a handsome dude then just do whatever you want.

Beginning_Disaster81 · 2024-09-28T18:09:24+00:00

Not an easy question to answer......your kinda asking me to tell you what kinda animal you are therefore how you should be hunting for your food.....feel me? I have my ways, they work for me.....but I'm almost certainly a completely different animal from you.

EmployFew2509 · 2024-09-28T05:24:33+00:00

Do hookers count

HomelessMilkman · 2024-09-28T10:21:05+00:00

If you did, what did you do ? Any strategies you used ?

You demonstrate self-esteem, 'value', 'status', whatever you want to call it passively through your behaviour. Strategies? Bullshit. You open your mouth and you either sound like you could lead people, it's powerful, resonant, punchy, 'high status' or it's a meek and insipid. The truth of who you are, how you feel about yourself is right there on show.

I agree with all of the posts telling you not to learn in this environment. If you know how to present yourself and girls like you, it's not rocket science; no one cares what you want, she cares what she wants and if she wants you, it's fair game. If you can't discern that, learn in an environment where you'll get proper feedback.

L2F_mens_thickcheeks · 2024-09-28T12:52:14+00:00

AT WORK ? Hell no

She will tell all the other woman and u will be known as the work predator who can’t get laid in real life so u prey on your co workers

Who get paid to be nice to u and get stuck working with u

Don’t do it

Go outside and get woman there

Title	Anyone approached a girl in her place of work ?
Author	IndoCaribboy
Upvotes	18
Comments	60
Date	September 28, 2024 1:00 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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