(Disclaimer this will come across super redpill and it just came to mind) Why does it seem like women love causing chaos without a plan to fix the problem after?

Ok. So I began thinking of my past relationship, and friends stories of X’s, and stories from struggling couples. (There’s obviously a selection bias issue, and I’m not projecting this onto every woman)

But I seem to notice a trend of women being unhappy with something and creating a big issue and fireworks with what seems like no plan to bring a resolution to the problem. A resolution where the two can move forward better. It’s almost like the fight/ drama is the main goal and not the resolution of the issue.

It seems like impulsiveness where the girl wants to be heard and let her partner know what the issue is at all costs then putting the burden on the man to fix the problem now that he is aware of it.

The question that comes to mind is, “if this issue bothers you so much why don’t you take the initiative to fix it?”

Its never, “here’s the issue I have, here’s how I think you can help, let’s take some steps to get me to a place where I want to be.”

It always come across as, “I don’t like this and that what’s up? What are you gonna do about it?”