How to make friends who are also Red Pill Women?

Hot_Blacksmith_3404 · 2024-11-13T19:38:27+00:00

Do “mom” activities/groups during business hours, so you’re most likely going to run into other stay at home moms. Pilates class, knitting group, book club, church group, mom groups etc.

I wouldn’t put redpill in your bff profile because there may be lots of likeminded women who just have no clue what that means and go to google it and find all the toxic male rp crap and think that’s what you mean. Just put “hoping to find other traditional homemakers/stay at home moms” and describe the activities you would want to do together.

Also, remember RPW doesn’t necessarily mean stay at home moms. Laura Doyle has a hugely successful career and no kids. The RPW relationship toolkit can be hugely beneficial for women with all varying career or non-career aspirations.

Ok_Ice621 · 2024-11-13T19:12:28+00:00

I would say the easiest way is to meet moms who go to story time during the week. I don't know what part of the country you live in but I know in the South, you will find a lot more SAHM in traditional marriages than in the Northeast. Usually a woman who can attend story time frequently during the week in the morning is most likely a SAHM and that's how I was able to find SAHM friends who are more traditional leaning. You can chat with them, plan for playdates and eventually you will find their mindset over time.

Issa11111 · 2024-11-13T20:04:13+00:00

not sure if you are religious, but if you are, could try church and church children activities

theodorelogan0735 · 2024-11-13T21:22:45+00:00

Homeschool groups

candleelit · 2024-11-14T00:44:35+00:00

Make friends that like sourdough bread and chickens. Chances are they are at least a lil red pill.

pieorstrudel5 · 2024-11-14T12:01:00+00:00

Red Pill women are a diverse group.

You want friends. Do things you like and you'll eventually find your ladies.

I found mine in a women's community service organization.

youllknowwhenitstime · 2024-11-14T16:51:55+00:00

You're not likely to find other women who know what Red Pill is (and at least half of those who do aren't STAHMs), so I can't recommend going that route!

But if you're looking for women who enjoy STAHM, male-led relationships, your best bet is going to be conservatives. If you're more centrist or leftwing politically, you may have to agree to disagree politically.

- Churches always have women's groups. The trick is finding a church with a lot of young families.

- Check Facebook for local STAHM meetup or play groups. This will house a variety of people, but you may find some women who share your ideals.

- The "crunchy Mom" groups swing one of two ways, but there's a lot of rightwing hippies these days.

- Homeschooling groups are often open to Moms whose kids are too young to do school, but intend to and are looking for socialization options that aren't daycare. Those families with elementary kids are often large and have tots and infants with them too. There's a bit of trend of calling at-home pre-school activities early homeschooling as well, further closing the potential age gap.

Ok_Obligation_6110 · 2024-11-14T12:20:31+00:00

Have you ever used peanut? It’s literally hinge for moms! I met many moms in my area that way. Also check your Facebook for moms groups in the area. We have a young toddlers play group in my local rural town even. We go to baby story time at the library and have made many lasting friends there. There are lots of farms in my area that offer young toddler and baby homeschool events as well, they tend to be much more RP. A SAHM friend is a SAHM friend at the end of the day. I find that even those I don’t share the same politics with, we tend to have the same lifestyles and general beliefs, and don’t talk about politics anyway. For the sake of getting along with parents of all sorts of kids your friends will make when they’re older better to get used to getting outside your comfort zone in making mom friends!

MillennialMamaMagic · 2024-11-13T22:51:16+00:00

I’ve found likeminded moms on peanut. I’m nurturing one friendship right now. I am also going to local library events for babies and caretakers- hoping to meet moms there. I’m not sure if anyone else is as RPW as me but I know some are likeminded enough but they may not label themselves that way.

BothAnybody1520 · 2024-11-14T03:13:21+00:00

Go to religious establishment. That’s probably your best bet.

You’re current friends seam to be the opposite of what you’re looking for.

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LateralThinker13 · 2024-11-14T01:43:41+00:00

Homeschool groups, SAHM groups, Homesteading groups, etc.

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serenestorms-44 · 2024-11-22T15:29:02+00:00

Just curious if anyone else in this age group ~28-30 struggles with flakey mom friends. Things like not returning texts to play dates, don’t want to go out without kids, and seem to be disinterested in forming meaningful relationships. This isn’t just one person but has been my experience for the past year in trying to develop friends. Anyone else?

Diasastrouss · 2024-11-23T21:52:44+00:00

Girl same, I’m up for a chat if you’re okay with being friends w a 20 year old, but yeah I have had issues making friends as well! 🥲

Title	How to make friends who are also Red Pill Women?
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Date	November 13, 2024 7:05 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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