Here are the stats.

Been separated from my ex, but living in the same house for 20 months.

We last had sex in July.

I filed for divorce at the start of December.

I've since downloaded the apps, been having some dates, met some nice gals.

Here's my concern -

  • that I may not be giving myself time to really be alone and process. That I'm jumping too quickly to the next thing, while still having feelings for my ex / being sad.

There's one gal that I'm little infatuated with.

Am I being stupid and rash?

Advice would be appreciated. I'm still dropping man tears on the regular for my ex, or maybe for the dream of what that life was / my kids etc.

Thanks