I made a post about 10 days ago asking for advice on my situation. Basically my wife has said she was no longer in love with me and she is in love with one of her coworkers. She had been lying and downplaying the situation to me for about a month in December 24. And few days after that I snooped through her phone, which I still am ashamed that I did. But it revealed that she has been having EA & PA behind my back. She bragged to her friends and family about how clueless I was and how she was so excited to have PA with this guy. Well 10 days later, she has been going over to his house to sleep here and there. But she’s also been giving me mixed signals like hugging and trying to kiss me. I’ve been trying to give her the cold shoulder. A couple nights ago I asked her if she was going to his place. She got upset and basically packed a night bag and went over to his place, the same thing happened tonight. We have had a good couple last few days of semi hanging out and having a couple of laughs. But she flat out said it’s too late and that I’m making it harder than it needs to be. And that she will start putting in applications for an apartment. The main thing is was have a young child together. And I’m also in the military. I’ve been trying to schedule a consultation with 3 different law firms but they haven’t reached out. I’m going to call each of them on Monday. I’m just curious how custody might end up looking like. I’m not going to settle for less than 50/50, she broke the family and I’m not going to suffer the consequences and lose out on my daughters life. She’s why I joined the military and I am committed to making her life better and without financial struggle. Any advice on what I should be asking for? I’m almost certain she thinks that I’m just going to watch her on the weekends as she works the day shift on both of those days. Someone told me to try this community for divorced dads so I figured I’d give it a try. Thanks in advance!