So to be clear, I wasn't just looking for any girls in my area. I was going for foreigners since I have some weird taste in women.

Spec: Asian / 27 / 5'9 / decent looking(Get a few dates from OLDs every month) / living in Asia

But anyways, I've been going out multiple times per week, mostly weekend, Going around bars, clubs, pubs to engage with mostly single or duo groups. Tbh I haven't really gone for the numbers game, but mostly went for quality over quantity. If they give me a slight sign of IOI, I would go ahead and start a convo. I would usually start with a normal hi's or comment about their stuffs or their surroundings. But most of the time, I feel like I'm being a cloud and entertaining them to get their attention. They would laugh and ask some basic questions, but nothing really progresses after that. I would sometimes escalate things if they are very responsive but that's pretty rare. Also with groups, it's super hard to get all of them to be interested. Also it is so hard to talk with the target girl when the other girl is just not entering the convo so the target would get uncomfortable only talking with me.

For clubs, I would just dance and try to enjoy my vibe and barely talk unless I get to dance with one of the targets and after a while, I would strike a convo. This is also very hard since most girls are there to dance with their friends / or already have multiple guys dancing with them. I have made some friends after engaging to one of them, but they weren't my style and was only talking to them for warmups.

So basically I have gone out more than 30 times and never succeeded in getting lays. I have secured a next day date a few times but that also fizzled pretty hard. What am I doing wrong? Or is this just the reality of night games.