What’s considered good dick?

6107Kentucky · 2025-02-25T22:57:22+00:00

IMO it means you take her needs into the forefront of a sexual experience.

I think a lot of dudes get insecure thinking about size, how long they last, etc. but overall, women want their desires satisfied, and few men do that.

So yeah, some of that might be learning how to arouse her, show your stuff etc. but ultimately. I think it comes down to putting their orgasm and pleasure above yourself (emphasis on the pleasure, a lot of women have trouble achieving orgasm w partners especially early on)

CharmingRejector · 2025-02-25T23:07:29+00:00

Read up on some books on how to be better in bed, or better at sex and domination in general. Read up on how to escalate, turn up the heat slowly with flirting and innuendo - starting even before you get home - instead of thinking of it like a switch. Then learn about foreplay. Where to touch. Learn where to find her spots and what to do with them. I.e. where is her clit, and how do you touch it - not directly at first, use lubrication. Where's the G-spot. How do you handle it. When do you go hard. How do you make her squirt. Etc. And also, when do you let her come (i.e. how to dominate her properly). All this is gonna make you such a fantasy lover for her that she'll want to keep you around much longer despite your other flaws.... Also read up on female fantasies. My Secret Garden and so on. Read all of this, and just bask in the confidence that you're now a one in a million lover, and women talk.

DaygameCode · 2025-02-25T23:55:22+00:00

Trying to make sure that a woman will stay with you no matter what, already means the woman will leave you even if you have a good dick. Because rather than enjoying the moment and the connection you share, you’re obsessing over control and trying to script the future and therefore adding pressure on the relationship so that things go your way which is a turn off.

If you’re constantly thinking, How do I make sure she stays? How do I keep her interested? You will begin to suppress your true self to avoid disagreements, overanalyze her actions and words, looking for constant reassurance, seeking validation instead of just enjoying the moment, acting overly nice or agreeable out of fear of losing her, trying to be someone you are not, if you sense that's what it takes to keep her interest and become needy or anxious when she pulls away.

And no matter how good your dick is, or how good you are in bed. Eventually that neediness will tunr her off and make her lose interest in you. Those who try to control the outcome always lose the woman.

InternationalSwan162 · 2025-02-25T23:58:10+00:00

Look at my insta and the messages women leave me

Caveat: don’t be dom if you have no idea what you’re doing. You will get yourself into trouble.

Janemba_Corvalis · 2025-02-26T00:48:31+00:00

Sex is all about experience and compatibility. After a while, you kinda just know what to do. But I've had some partners where it just doesn't click. Also, foreplay and aftercare are just as important (if not more important) as doing the actual deed.

shinn497 · 2025-02-26T01:22:29+00:00

The best thing you can do to please a woman in bed is to listen to her and ask her what her likes and diskikes are while being mindful of her boundaries.

That being sad. Paying attention to the clitoris and g spot also helps. Learn the angles and dont be afraid do go down on h we r. Her gfs certainly have no issue with this

ExtraordinaryBeetles · 2025-02-26T01:36:36+00:00

Good dick = good sex. If you're not listening to her cues during sex, which are very obvious IMO, then it's a dice roll as to whether or not she likes your style of sex.

Red_Cat69 · 2025-02-26T02:41:12+00:00

Means being good in bed, an important part of both late-stage seduction and relationship control

dobbs1997 · 2025-02-25T23:22:02+00:00

lol…..why do you want a chick to stay ?? You’re trying to learn how to give good dick to make a girl wanna stay yet you don’t know that you can honestly give average dick to a girl and she’ll stay because of WHO YOU ARE, HOW YOU MOVE, it’s like you inspire and influence something in her to want you but it doesn’t have to do with your dick, or anything outside of you

unbornbigfoot · 2025-02-25T23:22:31+00:00

Honestly, this is simple.

Did she cum?

If you got her there, particularly on a first hookup, you’ll get a call back. You’ll get calls back when they’re drunk and horny months later. You’ll get calls back when they’re in a relationship. You’ll get called back.

spacemangoes · 2025-02-26T00:16:30+00:00

You need to fuck her brains out. You don’t get this from reading some book or from a tutorial. You need to awake your inner animal and let the lust in you guide you. Be dominant and fuck her using her. She would tell you that she’s never been fucked like this before, you would be surprised how often they say this. She’ll then always be wet everytime you are around her. That’s called a good dick.

Title	What’s considered good dick?
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Date	February 25, 2025 10:45 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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