How to make night game enjoyable?

blacktargumby · 2025-03-16T19:07:50+00:00

Um… if you don’t enjoy going to bars and clubs, then don’t go. Women at bars and clubs are going to be attracted to men who are already having fun there and don’t need attention and/or validation from women to have fun. That’s why it greatly helps for men to go with their male friends and even better to go with female friends. But if you don’t have friends who want to go to bars and clubs with you and you don’t enjoy them yourself, then don’t go. You’re not a loser for not going out at night on weekends.

CoachSlyDating · 2025-03-16T20:50:18+00:00

First rule of game is to have fun. The only person that can do that is you. You need to be able to push your own buttons to have fun. You should be constantly talking to people while you are out and start opening within 30 seconds of entering the venue. You should say things that you find funny and amusing.

liftingnstuff · 2025-03-16T20:59:41+00:00

Introvert/extrovert are not immutable characteristics. As you get more comfortable going out, it will start being more enjoyable. You might find that as a natural introvert you actually enjoy being in a 1 on 1 conversation with a girl. Pick quieter venues like lounges. Find venues with music you like.

selfimprovementman21 · 2025-03-18T22:45:02+00:00

Make it like a game. Set one (1) objective at a time that is already quite easy.

It could start at going there and sitting down, listening to the music for 10 minutes. Then you can go home.
Then next time, you do that and then get a drink (non-alcoholic is fine).
After this, you could do the above, and then dance for two songs. Hey, you could even try some dance moves or whatever.

Keep in mind that the three above would take place on separate nights. The self-pride that you build from hitting these objectives will itself become enjoyable. Also make sure that the objectives are *just* outside of your comfort zone otherwise you'll see the whole idea of it as ridiculously pointless.

Trust me, if your objectives make sense (I'd advise asking here or referring to highly-rated literature) then some consistency will end up seeing you dance there, jumping between different groups of people, and having fun flirting with the women there.

You should probably consider why you want to be good at night game. I won't ask you, but I'd say that being aware of a specific reason that you are doing it (which you care about) would really make the whole idea challenging and fun.

My two pence.

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-03-20T15:04:26+00:00

See my post on nightclubs. It's a step by step process on how to win in nightgame. No alchohol required.

Grapefruit-Smooth · 2025-05-01T22:42:10+00:00

Learning to dance is a great way to enjoy yourself in the club.

solo dancing by yourself is fun

dancing with the group that you came in with is fun

dancing with strangers is fun

dancing with the girl you’re attracted to is Hella fun!
(a couple weeks ago I pulled a girl I met on the dance floor)

in loud nightclubs, it’s hard to have conversations when the music is thumping. so sometimes you’re better off dancing which allows you to get physical and after a while, you can isolate her to a quieter location in the venue

Grapefruit-Smooth · 2025-05-01T22:44:25+00:00

In quieter venues like bars and lounges where you can talk. talk to everyone, guys, girls, and ugly friends. laughing and making jokes with people is a great way to have fun too.

Title	How to make night game enjoyable?
Author	icxcnika1
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Comments	11
Date	March 16, 2025 7:00 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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