Hey all,

So, weird situation. I have a great relationship with the mother of my kids. We've been split up for a couple of years. We split custody 50/50. If I need the kids a little longer she lets me have them and vice versa. We've moved on and are both in relationships. Everything is really smooth.

I know this situation could be worse, but the problem is, she is a little obsessed with social media and how people perceive her. She has always made her persona about how much she loves her kids. Now that she doesnt have them all the time it's ramped up. She keeps making posts that allude that she has full custody. I dont check facebook much, so it's not a huge deal or on my radar.

The problem is whenever I run into people we both know Ive been having a lot of awkward conversations. It's like people are surprised I have my kids or they think I left them or Im an absentee father or something. My kids friends parents seem like they don't reach out as much because they don't think I'll have them or something. Not a huge deal, but I do assume it could hurt my reputation to people who don't really know me. We're both local business owners. It just feels weird to make some kind of post about how I have my kids half the time. But maybe I need to?

Open to tips or if anyone has any advice.