Fellas, I don't even know where to begin. These past 2 weeks have been absolutely hell. I went from being on top of the world to self realizing that I have to live as a single dad here soon. She (36 yo) cheated on me (35 yo) with her 22 year old co-worker (THAT SHE HIRED!) and tells me, it's my lack of communication with her. I finally landed a decent paying job around where we live, albeit with fucking terrible hours (4p to 4a) and I tried my hardest to take care of our 3 boys. 14 yo stepson, our almost 12 yo and our 10 yo, taking them to school in the mornings after I got home from work, then taking my stbxw to her job soon after. Of course I was tired and not getting a lot of sleep. She still has a heart of gold, and is willing to be amicable as all get out, I just need some help getting my ducks in a row for me and my boys. Married 13 years, bought a home in 2021, no retirement or IRA or anything else major asset wise. She says verbal right now (I'm getting all this in writing tomorrow) that I keep the house, and be primary parent for our 2 to stay in this house so they stay in the same school. She's not going for child support or alimony. My end is that she can have the kids whenever, wherever as long as she wants, just as long as everything is properly planned and doesn't interfere with school and if I ever do decide to sell the house, she gets a percentage. Am I missing anything?