I’m divorcing and have met a wonderful partner. She doesn’t have kids. I have 3 but don’t want anymore.

she worries that she’ll never feel like we’re a family, because the kids aren’t hers.

Is it unfair to keep her in my life given I’m depriving her of the chance to have children? Given I’m asking her to commit to raising mine?

She’s so sad and I wonder if this is cruel to keep her with me.