Man Says He Doesn't Like Being Unwantedly Touched by Women - so Naturally, Women Attack Him

Acousmetre78 · 2025-06-18T03:13:36+00:00

In a college sociology class my female professor said men can’t be raped because all men liked sex. I told her I was abused as a kid and don’t like being touched by most women. She said I wasn’t being truthful and no one in the class spoke up.

Winter_Reveal_5894 · 2025-06-18T05:45:31+00:00

I was in an abusive relationship with a woman until recently.

When I posted about my experience online, women harassed me VIA direct message over reddit. They said it was all my fault, that I was lying, and that she was going to be so much happier without me.

These were women who never even met my ex-wife. They were just random netizens who decided they needed to send me harassment because I, as a man, disapproved of something another woman did.

Women will always defend other women's behavior. Nothing makes them more uncomfortable than men voicing their concerns about a bad experience, because when they see those women's behavior, they see things they've done to men themselves. They interpret criticism of such women as an attack on themselves.

chizzymeka · 2025-06-18T06:32:10+00:00

No means no until a man says it.

Vegetable_Ad1732 · 2025-06-18T02:51:06+00:00

Here's the OP referred to in the OP.

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1lcjepr/man_expresses_his_discomfort_about_women_touching/

AndyRoo2023 · 2025-06-18T07:06:07+00:00

Great opportunity would’ve thought, for the females who claim they’re allies of men in this group (that some of you have faith in and ‘love to hear from’)...to go over to that YouTube channel and advocate for this man, to combat the barrage of negative responses from the other women…seems like a simple enough thing to do, yes?…otherwise what’s the actually point of having female allies?

My opinion on female ‘allies’ and their effectiveness differs from many men here, but no matter...since men here think women would have more impact 'because they’re women’, well, here’s a golden opportunity for them.

Last time I suggested something like this, a woman on here became aggrieved with me for suggesting it, hmm, I wonder why? It was just a...suggestion.

Due-Struggle-9492 · 2025-06-18T08:14:42+00:00

I don’t like being touched by one unwanted either. I trust my bros more than women

tacobellbandit · 2025-06-18T10:40:59+00:00

I had an issue at work with sexual harassment and I got blamed for reporting it. I worked at multiple hospitals at the time and I’m a man entering a space that is mostly dominated by women, and I’m not going to toot my own horn but I’m decently attractive, so I’ve been kind of objectified at work. I’m also married which kind of played a role in it as well. I wasn’t always attractive, and basically just for that reason, for a developmental portion of my life I was pretty much abused by women. Fast forward to me working in a hospital and being good looking now, I’m getting unwanted attention. One particular hospital one of the girls decided to sit on my lap in a suggestive way while I was working on my laptop, and another time got on top of me while I was laying on the ground working on something under their counter tops. I don’t wear a wedding ring since I work on high voltage electronics but still the behavior was inappropriate and insulting that they didn’t seem to bother or care to see if I was even receptive of it. I filed a complaint with their HR dept. I basically got told by my own employer to stop pushing it because I can’t afford to get kicked out of that hospital since I’m their only guy that works out that way, and the hospital was looking to instead of protecting me, the person who was harassed, they chose to just avoid the conflict altogether and say I wasn’t allowed back to work there if I didn’t pull the complaint

pm_me_your_buttbulge · 2025-06-19T02:15:28+00:00

The amount of women I've personally witness get angry and offended they can't grope and sexually assault a man is disgusting. And I've seen many left-wing redditors defend those women.

A woman friend of mine went up to touch another woman's arm-sleave tatt and about got socked. She was OFFENDED the other woman was bothered. Like dude... what the fuck? Don't run up behind someone and touch their arms like that.

Look at Scotlands rape laws. Last time I read - by law, women can't "rape" men because they lack a penis. Meaning a strap on or a broom handle doesn't count as sexual assault.

bcapone27 · 2025-06-18T07:02:41+00:00

I was touched a lot of times - since I didn’t know better I tried seeing it as a compliment. But yeah, actually it’s harassment.

MisterBowTies · 2025-06-18T12:52:39+00:00

It is because people are constantly told that the only thing lem ever want or think about is sex, so any kind of comments or touching from any woman for any reason is fine because men want Amy kind of sexual gratification from anyone at anytime. Further more, if a man doesn't you to touch them it must be a personal insult to you because this is what they always want all the time.

LateralThinker13 · 2025-06-18T19:07:45+00:00

"If some ugly 50 year old creep touched your butt, you'd hit him with mace, yes?"

"Sure?"

"Is it because he's ugly/creepy, or because you didn't consent?"

"Both!"

"Well, I don't consent here - and you ain't that pretty, either. So fuck off."

Jumpy_Box_9737 · 2025-06-18T19:43:01+00:00

I don't like being touched by any woman I'm not related to, or involved with. I don't touch any woman I'm not related to or involved with, and I expect the same in return. Women should respect that, especially when you consider the the fuss they kick up when the boot's on the other foot. There's no need for physical contact in the workplace, if you think about it. I don't think it's too much to ask, women, for you to keep your hands to yourselves. And your other parts.

Professional-Dot2319 · 2025-06-20T04:48:34+00:00

I'm sick of women being lifted in the air and being praised for everything, even if what they did is so wrong, whilst Men can't even say that a woman is good-looking without "sounding" like a creep. But it's alright for women to comment under a guy's video "I want a kid from him"? Fuck no. That's also being creepy. I'm tired of this bs.

Snoo_78037 · 2025-06-20T11:35:19+00:00

The guy saying that men say "what was she wearing" a lot when women go through this is stupid. Men in general show compassion for women when they are assaulted even if they say that it's not to down play the experience it's more like a preventative thing and people think that that phrase us a justification for the assault it's just am inquiry trying to figure out the reason at least that phrase doesn't deny the person as a victim.

But with men, people say when a man is assaulted that he "probably enjoyed it," feminists like mary koss have informed policy by saying men have "ambivalent concent." When men go through rape they get less sympathy.

People have always taken women being raped more seriously. In ancient societies rapists were killed if they were men, but not female rapists. People are more reluctant to punish women for crimes. People have only started to take male victims of rape seriously like yesterday. We don't have the same vitriol in our hearts for women who abuse men and boys like that. Even other male prisoners hate men who abuse women and children, and some might even kill them. But with women that abuse children and men, we low-key think it's funny.

ciaobellapgh · 2025-06-20T14:03:38+00:00

I've been sexually assaulted like this by women, too. It's considered funny more often than not, but it really did make me feel sick and hurt. Of course, no one cares, and we have to deal with it.

Roamer56 · 2025-06-23T19:26:51+00:00

MGTOW, men.

Former-Whole8292 · 2025-06-18T09:47:54+00:00

I posted a tiktok live of a bunch of misogynists who shut down anyone who mentions that men can be raped. BC men who hold up the patriarchy and women who do so, blame women for rape, but also say men cant be raped. You can find the Live under my posts. Misogyny and misandry pften both condone sexual abuse.

Title	Man Says He Doesn't Like Being Unwantedly Touched by Women - so Naturally, Women Attack Him
Author	Vegetable_Ad1732
Upvotes	624
Comments	72
Date	June 18, 2025 2:50 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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