Red pill has me thinking about Trans issues

raisetheavanc · 2025-08-27T06:57:29+00:00

I know this is a hypothetical question, but if it helps: 2 in 5 women will have a hysterectomy in their lifetimes anyway and cervical/uterine cancer is super treatable. You don’t even need to get your ovaries removed a lot of the time. They’ll just take the rotten bits out.

Source: me, someone who has to get a hysterectomy pretty young.

fluttering_vowel · 2025-08-27T07:04:50+00:00

Hey, I feel you with concerns of aging as a woman. but transitioning because of that is like letting the toxic ideology win, rather than representing something healthier, by radiating beauty whatever age you are. Beauty isn’t limited to conventional beauty or youth. Why live in the box of red pill? Why do you need to impress those who think that way? Take a look at photos of wrinkled women in India, smiling with no teeth. They radiate a beauty deeper than physical appearance.

We need to not live by others’ superficial standards. You could be a healthy example for younger women as you age. It has helped me to see age positive Instagram accounts like thesilverlining_1970

I also enjoy coming across social media accounts of women in their 50s-90s living wild and free. One woman dresses in all green and dyes her hair green. Some women live in the forest and create art. Some travel. Some hike national forests. Some live in nudist communes and are polyamorous. Some do handstands and the splits, strength train and dance. They all inspire me so much. I created a folder called “Crone inspiration” to save their posts as examples to myself of older women who are inspiring and don’t act like their life is over, they don’t conform. You can be one of those women when you’re older too -living uniquely and authentically as you, and inspiring younger women by not trying to fit in that box or just disappear.

There is so much more to women than youth and appearance. Each stage is special.

I recently was in the forest and came across a wilted purple flower. I thought about how that wilted flower is just as beautiful to me as a flower that was in full bloom. It’s a different stage of beauty. The bees and bugs are no longer swarming it, there’s no longer something to extract biologically, but it still has inherent value by existing. It is still beautiful in a different way. It can just exist as itself.

IndicationForeign894 · 2025-08-27T08:44:00+00:00

So you're afraid of aging as a woman? Since when are all older women karens? The only people stressing about women aging are red pilled people who think women arent fertile after 30 (which is not true) and after that they are useless to society. The world is not as red pilled as you think. Normal people outside don't look at older women and think "damn she is old and not worth anything". I go outside and see older women and think absolutely nothing of it. Same as older men. Mostly I might think "cute grandma", or "oh shit cool auntie".

There are scientific theories that older women are crucial to society which has led to menopause. Your value is not tied to age at all and most of the world does not believe that. Get yourself out of red pill spaces and go outside and look at older women interacting with regular people. Most people understand that the beauty standard regarding infinite youth is ridiculous and older people arent supposed to look the same as young people.

"We can live without a relationship but we can't live without the ability to make a decent living." Are you claiming older women don't have jobs?

I really am just super confused with what you think the issue is??

watsonyrmind · 2025-08-27T12:22:57+00:00

Setting all of your weird rationale aside, your post screams social isolation. Your descriptions of the world are completely departed from reality. Just like incels, instead of "learning" how the world works from other isolated people internet, at least go out and get to know some people first, learn some social skills. Form some meaningful connections before making life altering decisions based on internet extremism you will rarely encounter in the real world.

Littleprawns · 2025-08-27T08:00:25+00:00

You really think the redpill respects ftm people??

XhaLaLa · 2025-08-27T13:58:45+00:00

Have you ever actually like… talked to trans people? Because if you’re cis, you’re basically going to be intentionally putting yourself in the position that trans folk are in before they have access to appropriate healthcare, and for plenty of people that state is fairly unbearable. Probably better to just work on fighting misogyny, I would think.

Personal_Dirt3089 · 2025-08-27T18:58:25+00:00

Trans people have things way worse. Their situation is not a toy to try because it looks convenient.

Also, most of society is not redpillers. While redpill spaces try to normalize the redpill, redpill gets seen as interchangeable with "incel" outside redpill spaces.

tallandducky · 2025-08-27T13:47:26+00:00

What do you mean by a second class citizen? I’m not denying the statement. I’m just asking what that comprises for you?

memomemomemomemomemo · 2025-08-27T12:08:47+00:00

i cant imagine being anything but a woman, its my identity, its who i am. Being in anyway male presenting ... honestly- is horrifying- and deeply disturbing

VisceralSardonic · 2025-08-28T18:00:28+00:00

If it were possible to just decide to be another gender because it’s a more convenient one, trans people wouldn’t exist. Being the wrong gender/sex is excruciating for many people and worsens most health outcomes as traumas tend to, so no. That’s not a solution.

Beyond that though, the solution to people getting along isn’t forcibly eliminating anyone who’s different. We’ve tried that many, many times over as a society, and we end up eliminating that group partially or completely, casting suspicion on anyone who seems like that group, casting blame on anyone supporting that group, expanding our hatred to include other, similar groups, and eventually, just expanding the hatred until we eliminate anyone for any crime of being even slightly different. That’s quite literally how genocides happen, and ends up leaving generations of reactive, traumatic hate in its wake.

You need to be able to deescalate this for yourself and see the whole situation as anything other than the extremist, creepy, almost monetary redpill divide of valuable and valueless and just let people live their lives. Have you asked older women? I’m in my 30s, which is ancient to many redpill men, and I’m fucking thriving. In some ways, I’ve never been happier or more satisfied. Many of my older, female relatives are also happier, healthier, and more self-confident than they’ve ever been in their 50s or 60s. The way to be a happy older woman is to figure out how to be happy as an older woman, not to respond to the meanest internet trolls by acquiescing that we should give up everything and politely not exist.

Material_Calendar_66 · 2025-08-28T23:41:03+00:00

Don't transition just because you're afraid of aging as a woman. You will give yourself gender dysphoria. Being transgender is not a choice.

Title	Red pill has me thinking about Trans issues
Author	Dry_Try635
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Date	August 27, 2025 6:42 AM UTC (11 months ago)
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