A bad experience or two is fine, but when someone insist that they always are a victim of something, it’s time to realize the common denominator is that person. This is about people who like to cry that they’re victims of society, but there are people in similar situations that don’t act like them nor claim to be victims.

Think of JLo. She claimed the men she was with didnt know how to love…while she’s the one on her FOURTH DIVORCE. Also, her first husband called her out for being the one who cheated and implied it was probably with P Diddy.

Also, guys who will swear everyone hates him for no reason and its because society hates men that arent on top. He’ll say “I was kicked out of a group because I wasnt flawless”. He wont say he was warned multiple times for his behavior and ignored the warnings. A guy might say “Im an outcast amongst outcasts”. He wont tell you that he doesnt like to leave his room and hates trying to meet people, even when its friends introducing to people with his interests, A guy might say “Every woman’s only dumped me or cheated on me and I feel like love hates me”. He wont tell you that he gets into situationships. He wont tell you that he takes people for granted and is avoidant.

This also makes giving advice online hard because you don’t know what problems these people have that they’re not aware of to tell you or that they refuse to. Someone might say they’re doing everything right, but it turns out they’re doing something wrong that you didn’t think you had to tell them they’re doing wrong.