Gen Z Men ‘scared’ to date, fear of being filmed creating ‘Cold War’ of the sexes

_WutzInAName_ · 2025-11-09T21:29:36+00:00

Yep, and all it takes is one bad interaction with one petty, vindictive, unstable woman. A man can get defamed and doxxed before an audience of millions of other women on one of the women-only dating apps, then lose his job or reputation because of it, and not even have a chance to defend himself or be aware of it.

Those apps shouldn’t be allowed to exist. The people using them should know better. Sue the worst offenders connected to those apps into oblivion.

RevelationSr · 2025-11-09T21:51:15+00:00

"it can plant seeds of resentment that threaten to fracture gender relations for a long time."

ImJacksThrowaway · 2025-11-09T22:22:40+00:00

Men are biologically wired to protect/provide desire be enthused and chase the opposite sex. Now we barely even want to go for coffee. That's how bad dating is.

MapleWatch · 2025-11-10T01:14:01+00:00

Just yesterday on one of the apps I had a women try to victim blame me over my ex wife's cheating on me.

She's reasonably cute and can actually communicate, but I guess I know why she's single now.

YoungQuixote · 2025-11-10T03:20:53+00:00

Not "scared".

"Cautious"

Nalyd87 · 2025-11-10T03:21:57+00:00

I've been radicalized by what I've experienced over my life and seen from this heartless evil generation of women.

They can all go fuck themselves forever.

Chemical_Hearing_0 · 2025-11-09T23:45:31+00:00

I'm in my 30s and this is definitely something I think of, women these days seem to have a psychological need to film absolutely everything they see or do and upload it to Instagram or tiktok. It's crazy.

I don't need some woman who doesn't find me attractive blasting me all over tiktok as the Creep who had the audacity to go and try chat her up.

Iriltlirl · 2025-11-09T22:24:11+00:00

There's a reason those stuffy country clubs and exclusive city social clubs have the rule, NO SMARTPHONES.

Ziodyne967 · 2025-11-09T23:00:09+00:00

Yeah, us dudes just want peace. Being filmed or dumped on turns me off.

wordjedi · 2025-11-10T01:49:59+00:00

There's just no way to communicate to them how unsexy it is for a man to have to second guess his every word or action like a politician.

Dates become a survival test to just endure and get through, and who wants that? Women seem to be really really bad at understanding the world they're building with their group actions. So much affirmation "you GO sister!" they never question anything they do, but it's rotting everything💀

Stunning-Yoghurt369 · 2025-11-10T00:21:20+00:00

I don't know of one man that is "scared" of a woman. The proper way to work this, is that smart men understand, that legally the laws support women, and a smart man would not put himself in a position, for a woman to wield that type of power over him.

The best thing that a man can do in today's Western society, is not get involved with women, if he values his money and freedom.

86baseTC · 2025-11-09T21:27:20+00:00

Sounds alright to me

Simplement_thrown · 2025-11-10T02:04:12+00:00

Wait until you hear about AWDTSG groups.

Yamcha-is-Life · 2025-11-10T11:44:42+00:00

If I become single again, I'm not dating as long as as there's apps like tea out there. I've seen good men slandered, and I myself have been slandered by spiteful women who couldn't keep me. Juice isn't worth the squeeze.

dougpschyte · 2025-11-10T09:19:37+00:00

Cameras in plain sight = Manipulative Reproductive Suppression in plain sight.
https://quillette.com/2025/10/03/how-intrasexual-competition-suppresses-female-fertility-dani-sulikowski-quillette-cetera-ep-54/

Same_Common4485 · 2025-11-10T17:42:09+00:00

Women blame men and men blame women, like a gender war where building/having a loving relationship is hard. The difference is that most women still have sex and men a lot less. The top 10% of men with the highest sexual marketplace value (chads?) probably have a good time.

Just_an_user_160 · 2025-11-12T01:38:37+00:00

The consequences of feminism and misandry on society.

AccordingParsley2683 · 2025-11-10T00:15:35+00:00

I'm so lonely as a man without love, not in a sexual needy way, I just want someone to care about me. How are women not lonely? How are they getting by just fine without partners to love and support them?

funnybillypro · 2025-11-10T01:12:54+00:00

I had to go in to read what the fear of filming was. Are chicks really on dates — not just on their phones but — filming the date??? I mean beyond a picture of the food or quick video of the restaurant.

I've been on a lot of dates with a lot of women in NYC and I've never encountered a newer date trying to film *me* on the date. If anything, I've had to mention someone being on her phone too much, but ???

The only thing I can think of is something justifiable when someone is actually without question just being an ass but....what is it we're actually talking about? If anyone who's had this happen on a date (at the table?).

PsychologicalTax326 · 2025-11-10T11:22:22+00:00

I have someone…

But I still try to avoid women at all costs.

I’ll never hire women, at work I will try to limit as much contact as possible, etc.

Not because I can’t trust myself. I just can’t trust them.

Constantly looking for a reason to be a victim and to make a moment out of it.

Ecstatic_Cress9146 · 2025-11-09T22:39:32+00:00

Of course it’s Fox News

Title	Gen Z Men ‘scared’ to date, fear of being filmed creating ‘Cold War’ of the sexes
Author	Willing-Share-5617
Upvotes	597
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Date	November 9, 2025 9:01 PM UTC (8 months ago)
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