Do you go cold approaching alone? I'm especielly interested in night game.

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-11-29T20:22:48+00:00

If you’re not familiar with cold approaches or the places themselves, I wouldn’t suggest you to do it alone. Familiarity is important. The way you act or do stuff depends on how familiar you are with the place and the people around you. If you’re a regular at bar or a club you can easily tell which ones are the newcomer just by their gestures or how they carry themselves.

Prestigious_Water336 · 2025-11-29T19:30:34+00:00

I did it all the time

Who cares what others think

go watch nightlife vids of other countries like the Uk. you see hot women walking alone to bars all the time.

TotalFNEclipse · 2025-11-29T22:14:29+00:00

Real talk - I almost NEVER went (go) alone. And I’ll be deadass honest why. If I’m going with the intention to maybe approach, I really don’t want to run into any problems with a group of dudes who may be associated with the potential girl I happen to possibly want to talk to.

All it takes is one look, one comment, or one too many shots & if someone else loses their cool, I’m already a dead cat bc of not having a wingman.

Now, give me ONE good wingman, and 99% of the time I’d be confident going in. (Even if outnumbered)

Maybe I’m thinking too far into it. Other guys feel this way?

Hungry-Calligrapher8 · 2025-11-29T19:42:56+00:00

It’s way easier to meet girls going out alone in my experience. No one you have to account for and you’re forced to go try to meet people.

Usually I start talking to someone and if it’s going ok then a I buy them a drink which usually leads to them at least making out with me.

Good luck brotha just go for it

Virtual_Ad_4817 · 2025-11-29T19:48:54+00:00

I still do it sometimes. You can't rely on your friends to want to do this. Some of my best nights I've had going out alone.

When you're out alone especially you need to reduce the time you're not in set. Ideally make it 0 or close to 0. Get used to just always opening someone new.

playboynet · 2025-11-29T20:23:49+00:00

Figure out your style..

If you're a thrive under pressure guy then find new friends that will go out with you

If you're a lone wolf then by all means go out solo

The mindset is simple..

"my ancestors did this shit.. so why cant I?"

"how else will I find a bad btch?"

on top of that, I just find the whole process fun

so that helps

juff2007 · 2025-11-29T22:20:04+00:00

A lot of women will judge you for being at a bar or club alone. Best situation is to go with women you’re friends with.

Sean04_k · 2025-11-30T00:29:35+00:00

Never know until you try so I say to for it. I don’t do bars but when I go club with friends I find more success being solo

professionalfumblr · 2025-12-01T04:04:14+00:00

I don’t “cold approach”, but yes, I go out alone. In fact, I tend to have more success doing this than I would with a friend or group.

Title	Do you go cold approaching alone? I'm especielly interested in night game.
Author	AronSc
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Date	November 29, 2025 7:24 PM UTC (8 months ago)
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