Women are kings of not following their own advice they push to men

Financial_Leave4411 · 2025-12-02T15:38:27+00:00

I’m really starting to wonder if the men here are ever going to understand there is no cheat code that every loser man can use to get laid/have casual sex. Women offer good advice to help decent men get a relationship but expecting women to teach men to be deceptive to get laid is an unrealistic expectation. If anything more and more women are helping other women to avoid men because too many men are trying to be deceptive thanks to red pill podcast bros.

HahaHeyyyFuckYou · 2025-12-02T15:22:35+00:00

What are you rambling about? There’s no coherent point here at all

Zestyclose_Truth9999 · 2025-12-02T15:23:45+00:00

I'm not sure what we're supposed to be debating?

If your point is that some women are absolute rubbish at giving dating advice to men, that's 100% true. Some men are equally terrible at giving dating advice to women.

toasterchild · 2025-12-02T15:28:16+00:00

Here's the thing about advice, you get to pick and choose what advice to try for yourself, it's not forced on you.

I see lots of advice given that contradicts the ones you started above, if you'd rather try other things you should. Find what works for you.

Getting upset that some people give advice you don't like seems like a ginormous time waste to me.

Lysa_Bell · 2025-12-02T15:18:05+00:00

What are we supposed to debate here? That some women dont do that and some do? Yes. Women arent a monolith. As usual. Why is that even still a debate worthy of a post?

My_House_on_Mars · 2025-12-02T15:30:28+00:00

Pretty sure this is the same advice MEN give to other men

because it's actually sane normal advice, there's nothing weird going on here

yes, it takes courage to follow this advice, not everyone is courageous.

TermAggravating8043 · 2025-12-02T15:16:59+00:00

Dude, most of the women here are in relationships, and don’t have any problems dating, they give this advice because it does work, when you have the right frame of mind

Lemon_gecko · 2025-12-02T15:23:30+00:00

Why should women follow advice for men? Do they try to date women? then by all means they should i guess, tho i don't know are lesbians that similar to straight women in dating preferences.

Gravel_Roads · 2025-12-02T15:25:17+00:00

This is advice for people who struggle to get attention.

Women don’t tend to struggle to get attention, they’re given lots of attention. The challenge for women is to figure out what attention is good and what attention is bad.

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CelicnisGhost · 2025-12-02T16:03:07+00:00

Shoot your shot! It's not the end of the World

It's true though. Same as the next two ones.

You have to PLAY TO WIN!!

Don't Be Afraid of Rejection it's part of life!!!

/

Always pay for the first date. It impresses the women you ask out

Don't do expensive shit for a first date. Coffee or something.

Do very nice gestures for the women whom you are new to dating Such as holding her door, buying her flowers, or getting her a gift 🎁

Yeah okay lmao.

You can't let heartbreak make you view women in a negative light

Well, you can't. Don't do it cause women say it'll get you women (it won't). Do it for your own peace.

Don't be a guy that ghosts women. It's rude and Pathetic. Just be honest

Same answer for this. Don't do it cause it's a shitty thing to do. Not cause it'll get you women (it won't, but it won't help either, this specific example is irrelevant).

ALWAYS let your intentions be known VERY early on.

You absolutely should... just in a smart way, subtly. You WANT her to know you have intentions with her, don't end up in the friendzone. But don't blurt out "I love you" of course.

EndlessFantasyX · 2025-12-02T15:38:00+00:00

Don't take advice from women.

A fisherman doesn't get fishing advice from a fish. He asks other fishermen

Homerbola92 · 2025-12-02T15:42:46+00:00

I agree that most women are like that but it doesn't necessarily show hypocresy. Men and women are different, therefore they don't have to follow the advice they give. In the same fashion if a man says "just wait for the next guy to appear, you don't need to look for them" while he's actively looking for a partner it wouldn't be an hypocrite, just practical and honest.

Title	Women are kings of not following their own advice they push to men
Author	Chemical-Low209
Upvotes	5
Comments	34
Date	December 2, 2025 3:09 PM UTC (7 months ago)
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