Nothing has been filed; however, I’d imagine over the next year or so it will be….

Does anyone have an opinion on somewhat liquidating assets (aka savings). Financially I’ll be hit pretty hard with alimony. Kind of makes all the money I’ve saved up worthless if we can’t enjoy it together and I’ll lose a majority of it.

Just wondering if I should just enjoy life a bit. Treat myself to that nice bottle of bourbon, get that watch I’ve always wanted. Don’t want to bankrupt us, but it’ll be a tough pill to swallow splitting all assets when I’ve always tried to save and not splurge. Once divorce is all said and done or filed I know it’ll look bad to splurge and/or will be much more difficult to splurge being I’d be adding spousal support on top of what I’d need to survive.