For context I meet all women in person, bars, clubs, events. No social circle, no apps, social media.

On first meet, I can make girls laugh, give them the fuckme eyes, playfully tease, break touch barrier, even talk about bedroom preferences, escalate to different venue, kiss/makeout...but never been able to take it all the way - only between meet 2 and 4.

I still don't really know what the 'play' is for a ONS. I can never make it seem like a 'win' for them 'oh my apartment is messy' / 'oh I'm with my friends'.

Further context: 1) don't have a place of my own and 2) and after 11pm I am usually running out of energy/falling asleep. Are these key limiting factors?

What could I change in the short-term - the above two points are not changable immediately.

Volume is fairly high - I have approached 500-750 women this year.