Approach!

Prestigious_Water336 · 2026-01-10T02:37:44+00:00

Yep

Worst comes to worst nothing will happen

Better-South-3039 · 2026-01-10T03:42:10+00:00

This is exactly why, win or lose, men should NEVER identify their selves with any given interaction! 🔥

Many men go through cold streaks and become the rejection, and become fatigued, which makes sense! But the world doesn't reward this.

By powering through, you built resilience and by the time you approached that woman, she likely felt your consistent vibe! Some men become Freddy Krueger after a couple rejections haha

GEEZUS_956 · 2026-01-10T03:08:25+00:00

What did you guys talk about for 20minutes if you don’t mind me asking?

jackthehat6 · 2026-01-10T13:21:23+00:00

it's a big numbers game. That is all. It's just about finding the girls who are receptive/attracted. You can have PERFECT 'game' and get rejected. (since you're just not her type or whatever). So embrace the numbers game

The hottest girl I ever pulled was after a night of rejections from girls who were nowhere near as hot as her lol. That memory often keeps me approaching on nights where it's just pure rejection despite having brilliant game and where it logically feels correct to just stop the pain and go home lol. Just keep going. Cold approach is all about screening and you need volume

PostAvailable9966 · 2026-01-10T05:05:44+00:00

You go bud, but remember, solidify on attraction by testing if they accept escalation. Attraction will fizzle fast on its own

Doctor__Finance · 2026-01-10T10:51:30+00:00

Approached one time to a three-girls group and one of them said "fuck off" to me too, because I was maybe a little pushing too hard. But in reality, I was trying new things on them. That was totally okay.

Another time, in a same exact bar, I approached to a five-girls group. And my main target said "well, thank you for coming."

That was soul crushing, but it is what it is.

tattooedpanhead · 2026-01-10T14:24:51+00:00

"fuck of" thank you, thank you for not wasting my time. Thank you for showing me that your not worthy of me or my attention and respect. Then move on to the next girl.

Not-Jody · 2026-01-12T02:31:18+00:00

What did you approach with? I need new ideas 😂

Not-Jody · 2026-01-12T02:36:15+00:00

I once approached a girl asking her to dance and I've been traumatized ever since. She only said 2 words: "Ew, no". Keep in mind, I spent an hour getting ready and got a haircut/beard line up that day 🙃

Damian-7530 · 2026-01-10T06:48:37+00:00

I have a question. I always imagined a weird scenario about approaching in the club. Let's say you talk to one girl in the club for 20 minutes. How do you eject or what do you say to leave? Also when you go talk to another girl what If the first one catches you doing that? Or the second one already saw you talking with the first one?

SporeHead369 · 2026-01-10T09:42:28+00:00

🙏🏻🫡💯

IntelligentFall1293 · 2026-01-10T02:47:55+00:00

20 minutes..... That seems excessive to me, you don't even know her and you already need her company.

Title	Approach!
Author	Morty7654345
Upvotes	72
Comments	32
Date	January 10, 2026 2:26 AM UTC (6 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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